How Often Should a Guy Call

Well, I would say it’s different for everyone. At the beginning, the most communication possible-if possible every other day if you are not meeting in person – especially, just to check in and see how you are doing .

If a guy is really into you, he will make enough contact to make sure he doesn’t fall off your radar. If not, he’s not interested enough.

There’s an actual three day rule! Yup, some guys wait three days because they don’t want to seem pushy or desperate lol. So if this guy knows the three day rule it could be three days, initially, and then he will start contacting you to set up dates, if he’s more interested in dating you v. his phone.

Here’s the rub—Do NOT get into a text showdown. Its the TOP TWO REASONS most don’t get off the ground because you give away too much about yourself, over text to the point that he loses the incentive to take you out on dates, and learn more about you in person. Give ‘little bits’ of info. on the actual dates, and use texting mainly for logistics. Keep texting short, brief, and then do most of the talking, not too much (remember ‘little bits’), on each date. Keep the mystery, and intrigue going as that’s super attractive to men. Stand out from the pack :o)

these days not many people have long conversations over phone. so that’s not a yardstick i would use to check his interest. if he checks in on you daily vide chats, makes plans to meet, then yes that would show hes interested.