You don’t bring it up unless you’re fully capable of being rejected or scaring the guy off.
Your job is to get to know him as “a person” not reaching a specific goal, such as a relationship or title because its meaningless if the guy isn’t and could just be ‘playing the field.’ What’s the rush? Like they say “only fools rush in” meaning those who make snap or rush decisions often regret it especially if the other isn’t wanting what you do.
Let him do his job, which is picking you first (he wants YOU over the all the others ladies he’s met) and then you get to chose him or a better guy who you think would be the best ‘long term’ match—that’s the natural order of a courtship/dating that works the best.
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