How to cope with the quarantine distance?

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April 18, 2020 at 6:42 pm #789655 Reply

Nina

A guy and I were starting a thing (hanging out for a month) before he decided to really quarantine himself.
I see my roommates going out with their friends for hikes and I get jealous because they are seeing people and I’m here all alone.
I wish he was interested on at least go on a walk with me. If he wasn’t texting me everyday I would say he was flaking but he talks to me every single day and is very engaged on my social media.
I really miss him though – we already knew each other before going out. We haven’t seen each other for 14 days and I’m pretty sad because he hasn’t even mentioned it :(
I’m scared to let him know I wish we could see each other and sound clingy or desperate.

April 18, 2020 at 7:10 pm #789660 Reply

cupcake

Where do you live? He is very responsible. You housemates are not! There is a pandemic going on no one should be having any meet ups or hiking dates unless they are living in the same household! Just scale back your expectations and wait until this lockdown (i presume there is a lockdown where you live) is over.

April 18, 2020 at 7:13 pm #789661 Reply

Nina

Thank you for the response! I only wanted a second opinion on this. Do you think I’ll sound clingy if I demonstrate that I wish we could see each other? We live in Seattle! Things are pretty strict here :(

April 18, 2020 at 7:35 pm #789665 Reply

cupcake

I dont see how saying you want to see him is clingy. Just dont overdo it since its obviously not possible at the moment. I would keep the conversation light and flirty and see where it goes after the lockdown ends (which might be a while)
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