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kimf
awwww yay Harley! I love when you answer my posts cuz I’ve been reading yours for years. I am really super excited and I think this really might be something great. Time to implement everything I’ve learned here ;).
MistralHey Kimf,
You are most welcome and I’m so happy for you! It’ll work out…trust and believe in yourself and him! God put him in your life again at a time when you both are ready for a healthy relationship for a reason! :)
kimfThat has crossed my mind.
I know a lot is about timing, and the timing is incredible.kimfAnd I confirmed last night that we are on the same page, and there is no one else in the picture, and we are not dating others. It was easy and nice. And he texted me today how he enjoyed how I listened to him. He said I wasn’t as present before.
I have this feeling that I just want to make him happy. And that makes me happy.MistralThat is so awesome Kim! And I’ll be willing to bet that is EXACTLY the same feeling he has about YOU! :)
When it’s the right person, I believe the Creator/God/Universe gives us the strength and courage to hang in there and be patient for the real and true love that we deserve.
The kind they write love songs about! :)
HarleyI love Happy stories. And yes….I love reading your stuff too. I guess Americans don’t fuss as much as the Irish. It’s funny how the lingo and cultures and dating styles can be different on different continents. Half the time when the Irish cuss. ..it’s just normal words to us.
oh I love new romances. As Mistral says. .All will go well. Positivity …positivity.
kimfThank you guys so much! And hey…I cuss! haha. I live in California but my grandparents were born in Galway. I was raised by crazy Irish men so I got you. ;)
HarleyI love you even more. I’m. ..off to bed.
kimfhaha…nite.
Mistral, what is your advice for when a man is pulling away after you are already in a relationship?MistralIf he’s pulling away, give him his space first and foremost. If you have to apologize for your part in something, I suggest it be an in person apology but extremely brief. In a situation I needed to apologize BIG TIME, what I did was take a small gift and said “apology for my behavior” and handed the gift to him and turned around and pretty much marched out of there without looking back, head held high, back straight, looking ahead.
He said he was impressed by how I handled that incident.
kimfThanks Mistral..I like that. I asked this to send the advice on to another thread but now I will have to find it haha.
MistralYeah, it does work and don’t sweat it…go find that thread…lol. :)
SerenaThis is awesome Mistral. Love your posts here.
Kimf – hope it all works in your favour. :)
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