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Linda.
confused
I just like that guy lol. I can say it at work but it will be after the day since his on Saturday. I can just say it twice – on a day and after at work if it seems right.
It’s hard to state how well I know him – let’s say we spent maybe 5-6 hours within the same group of people outside of work in total and maybe had direct conversation for about 2 hours (not work related) total if you add all the time up. Not a total stranger?
Lane
Confused.
Your tactic will not work on this man. If he’s not interested there are no words that you can say that will make him suddenly have an “ah ha” moment and see you any differently than he does now.
Men are very very SIMPLE…what you see is what you get, and if he’s doing NOTHING to garner your attention then he’s not interested in you that way. Just wish the man HB like everyone else does. If you do it by PM you MAY get a “thanks” response but that’s it, so why bother him that way.
Linda
Confused, you seem to be putting too much thought into a happy birthday message. There is no magic phrase or perfect words or emojis that are going to spark his interest in you. I think a couple of the other posters are correct. If you want to stand out wait a day or two, then send him a late happy birthday message or tell him in person. Ask him if he had a good birthday. Just be casual and don’t overthink this.
Raven
Again, you’re setting yourself up for a heartbreak…
L
Offer to take him out for a drink. It’s not subtle, but it will show if he has any interest at all in you or if he just wants a free drink.
Crisula
hasn’t he had his damn birthday yet?
Algo
She said it was on Saturday so that should be today. I really want and update, this is quite the cliffhanger…
consused
Next week lol
Jen
I’d say don’t worry about messaging him the perfect thing to say, just interact with him more in person. If you haven’t had many interactions in person, a subtle FB message won’t do the trick. Unless you want to ask him out directly through a PM, he probably won’t get the hint. Why not just post something on his wall like “happy birthday, we should celebrate soon!” If you don’t know him that well, I’d just suggest chatting him up in person – much more effective. Also, I’m going to be the contrarian and say it’s ok for women to make the first move, but only if there’s already some sort of interest there.
-Jen
More thoughts on dating: wildercurrents.com
Crisula
Just flash him
Linda
I would leave it alone. Don’t chase him, it sounds like he isn’t interested.
Look for a guy who wants to be in a relationship, who will find you interesting.
I just got out of a relationship with a man who is exactly like this.
I can’t waste my time on guys like this. This man whom I was seeing was interested in himself only.
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