How would you interpret this text from a guy

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March 8, 2020 at 8:10 pm #786863 Reply

Wonderer

So, this is what he texted me after the first date:

Hey, so it was really nice meeting you (minus all the wind lol). If you ever want to see a museum somtime or something like that, let me know, but if not then no worries.

I interpreted as he is not really interested lol any thoughts?

March 8, 2020 at 8:48 pm #786870 Reply

K

He’s either not sure if you liked him and is looking for some reassurance or he isn’t that interested in you or he’s just lazy. If you want to see him again, say yes, I’d like that let me know when you want to plan that. And see what he does. Do NOT plan it for him.

March 9, 2020 at 1:15 pm #786972 Reply

Paige

I agree with K.

I’d reply with something like this:

“I’d love to go to a museum! [If you’ve been to a particular museum exhibition you liked at some point in the past, mention it here and perhaps mention one item in particular you liked and a short reason why. Example: “I went to a Matisse exhibition at the High a few years ago. His swimming pool blew me away – I had no idea he ever worked in that medium!”] Just let me know where and when!”

Then don’t text him again unless he sends you a text setting up the museum date.

You’ve met him only once and you don’t need to start hounding him just because he’s shown some interest.

Good luck!
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