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LiMa.
Leelee
We have been off and on for over 4 years. He has cheated on me when he says he isn’t seeing others. He lied about having a GED. Told me this whole time he had it and then I recently found out he didn’t. I don’t care about his level of education. It is the fact he lied about it this whole time. He makes me feel stupid even though I have a college degree.
He barely works and spends money he doesn’t have yet puts my job down that I go to everyday and can pay my bills. He smokes weed everyday and gets mad that I don’t want to.
When I saw him recently, he got so drunk he peed in his dresser drawer thinking it was the toilet!
Why do I feel I need this guy’s approval and validation. He has hurt me so much but I can’t seem to let him go.
I found out he has a new woman in his life. So I am sure he is acting on his best behavior telling her a bunch of lies so she will think he is the best guy ever.
I don’t know what to do anymore. Despite all his BS, I am so attached to him. I care about him so much but I feel stupid.
Is he really too good for me? That is how he makes me feel. Will he treat this new woman better? Is she better and deserves his attention and time instead of me? I am so confused and hurt. : (
Nellie
“He barely works and spends money he doesn’t have”
So whose money is he spending? Yours?
Leelee
No, I don’t give him money. He has credit cards.
Raven
He cheets, lies, is lazy, broke, is a drunk & does drugs. He sounds AMAZING!
Get yourself to counseling, STAT!
Leelee
*Cheats. Thanks for the blanket, uniformed response that offers no real insight.
Raven
No, it’s cheets…
The insight is you are stuck on someone who doesn’t give a flying fuk about you… You need to find out why.
Honesty Rocks
Wow. You want insight ? I mean what insight can be given here ? This guy is horrible in every possible way. Has you eating out his hand and you want insight. This guy is an abusive loser for sure but that’s not even your biggest problem here your biggest problem is why have you not sent him packing once and for all. You need to see this as your problem you must have low self esteem, confidence issues and insecurities at the very least. You need to address these issues first. Most people would immediate kick a loser like this into touch. Good luck. X
LiMa
Oh dear, you sound like you’re better off single…
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