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Kelslie
I dumped my boyfriend three days ago… He keeps saying “you wanted to be single, you never cared, you couldn’t wait to be back on the market”
He keeps saying “karma is going to get me and I’m not going to gave good luck for what i did because he didn’t do anythingHe acts like i didn’t love him and is making me feel bad
aliaLook up narcissism.
RavenYou obviously & clearly dumped him for a reason!
sorry but…Someone (him) is having an emotional tantrum and word-vomiting all over you. He wants you to hurt.
Block him for a month or 2 (or forever), heal from your breakup and move on in the healthiest way possible.
KelslieNow he’s saying “the people who is telling you things wants you to be a hoe like them”
JoLet it give you a warn glow that you’ve definitely done the right thing.
SensyBreakups are hard and painful and just do not engage and take this time to heal.
LS“Now he’s saying…”
Don’t keep talking to him. His only purpose now is to make you feel as badly as possible.
Please respect yourself enough to just cut off all communications from him. Block him, don’t answer his calls, don’t reach out to him.
Better off singleHow did he continuously disrespect you?
Better off singleBreakups hurt and are hard to come to terms with when you are the one being dumped when you still really love the person.
Better off singleYou wind up saying things out of pain and frustration because you want it to go back to the way it was and have a harder time coming to terms that it will never be the same and there is no real way to fix it.
LizI guess it’s just better to remain silent than try to talk it out and solve the issue or help the other person accept it. I think that is immature, so in reality when the one who was dumped says to the other:
“you never cared,” and the other doesn’t respond, it only proves them right and makes it hurt worse. Lucky you you got your disrespect revenge and blew up the f×ucking bridge.
Im sure at one point you did care and if there was so much disrespect, why didn’t you handle it when it happened and work to fix it and come to a solution to where you were both happy?
LizI guess it’s just better to remain silent than try to talk it out and solve the issue or help the other person accept it. I think that is immature, so in reality when the one who was dumped says to the other:
“you never cared,” and the other doesn’t respond, it only proves them right and makes it hurt worse. Lucky you you got your disrespect revenge and blew up the f×ucking bridge.
Im sure at one point you did care and if there was so much disrespect, why didn’t you handle it when it happened and work to fix it and come to a solution to where you were both happy?
LizNobody wants to be truthful yet have no problem breaking someone’s heart.
GirlnextdoorBetter off single, she might have tried to solve the disrespectful behaviour problem but may not have been able to. Simple. I don’t know why people feel that other people don’t know that they should have tackled the problem then. Everybody knows and tries and in case they didn’t you won’t be helping much by pointing that out as it is common sense, they will think about it on their own.
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