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I’ve been dating this guy for 4 weeks. We haven’t really did much because of our state lockdown. He has cooked for me twice and even baked cookies the few times we’ve met up. I’ve noticed on the days we meet sometimes he eats super late and he likes to use DoorDash.
I stayed over two days ago. Once i got over his place he said “i haven’t eaten all day and it’s really almost midnight and I’m hungry and don’t want to cook”. So he said “Can you ride with me to Rally’s ?” So I’m like sure…
We went to the Rally’s where the had the payment window and food window on the passenger side. So i told him “I’ll pay” and he said “no!”
And i looked at him confused and puzzled at his tone of voiceAnd he said “I’m the guy I’m going to pay”
And i said “we’ll this is the least i can do you always cook and offer to do other things”I handed the cashier my money and the whole car ride he said “don’t pay for my food anymore are you trying to put voodoo on me?”
And i said “what are you trying to say?”
And he said “your seeing me good and buying me food!?!”
RavenSo… Don’t buy his food-
cupcakeSorry but how and why are you visit, staying over and going on fun rides with a guy you hardly know and are not sheltering in place with during lockdown? Are there no shelter in place orders where you live? Totally irresponsible
NewbieLanguage and weird details sound exactly like the fake post about the guy who got fed a bucket of chicken wings lol
kayeWhat is your question? He told you not to buy his food TWICE, you did it anyway and then he got upset with you over it. I’m not even sure what “your seeing me good and buying me food!?!” even means. Guessing there is a language barrier here I don’t understand.
Guys want respect. It’s very important to them. If you blatantly ignore what he asks and proceed to do what you want anyway, it’s emasculating to him and disrespectful. So STOP!
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