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Cierra Cooper
I noticed that every man I talked to they always have someone else before men. My mom always told me there will always be someone before you which is true in my eyes. Why do men have more than one woman? I don’t be noticing until a man tell me or, when I realized some changes while dating some men. I am a very jealous and selfish woman. Once when I meet a man and I started liking them, I be wanting them all to myself. I don’t mean to come off desperate or needy. I just want a relationship because I really haven’t had one. I am a 30 year old woman who wants marriage and children one day.
T from NY
II feel sympathy for all women in their 30s trying to date in this day of almost exclusively dating apps and now covid. The honest truth, whether women want to admit it or not, is that men in their 30s have absolutely no incentive to settle down and have a family unless their temperament runs that way. Dating apps have made sex readily available, leaving men to have tons of mini-relationships where they get to enjoy the benefits of the honeymoon phase over and over, never having to put in the work to be a true partner.
I think just understanding that men value their freedom and respect MUCH more than women – while women value relationships and love the most – is important to understand. So just vet the men you meet, GET HAPPY ON YOUR OWN, and try to have fun. I understand it gets lonely, but those feelings should be only moments if you have enough self love and have worked hard to build a support system. Take breaks. Remain hopeful and happy, and hopefully someday you’ll meet a dude ready to settle.
Newbie
You keep posting about this one guy as he is the key to understanding how men operate. But he is not. If he is any key its the key to understand men who are not interested in dating you. First rule of dating: give guys a change who are at least serious about dating. This guy has openly told you he sleeps around . Well fine for him. Now its time to block his number and move on. These guys understand types like you very well. They stay around even being fed breadcrumbs. Dont be that person. Go find a match in other dates. Its not that complicated
ANgie
Oh, don’t worry… After dating a few you quickly come to understand them.
Raven
He is not the only fish in the sea!
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