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Laura
How does anyone find a partner if the men you are attracted to nevrr like you back and vice versa
I’m 28 now, and only once in my life have I had a many I’m attracted to like me back. I was so relieved when I met him as our personalities meshed and it was amazing. Only for him to leave me after 8 months and tell me he didn’t like me, he just wanted girlfriend benefits. I made a post about him before, I adored him and tried everything to keep him in my life. The chemistry was great between us so it’s been hard to understand.So now at 28, I wonder if I’m even desirable or even the man I was attracted to and dating for so long, was even attracted to me. I’m scared.
I go on the hinge dating app every day, send all my likes out (you get 8 likes a day), but I never get any matches which I find weird as I’m quite an attractive woman. I’ve got lots of my interests on my bio, and a good selection of pictures
Even fell for a guy friend but even he didn’t like me back. I must have fancied at least 40 men growing up, a wide variety of men, and NONE of them liked me back.,I’ve never been pursued which makes my last relationship so hurtful to think about because I don’t think it will ever happen
I’ve hit a point where I’m scared I’ll never find anyone attractive again. In my early 20s, I dated men I had no sexual desire for and it left me feeling uncomfortable as I had to turn down sex, or forced myself to do it with no desire. With the last guy I dated, my body was so receptive to his touch and kissing and I’m scared I’ll never have that again
Ewacliche, but you just have to wait and believe that one day this man will appear in your life.
NatzHealthy love finds you when you’re not looking. Take a break for a bit. Enjoy your life. Travel. Maybe date a different nationality.
Sam“Healthy love finds you when you’re not looking”
Beautifully said, Natz!!
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