I feel like my efforts mean nothing

Hi All,
I wanted to ask advice before I have a rant and fallout with him but I’m kinda feeling disrespected. So yesterday I took my partner some gifts for Christmas. He said he felt bad because he didn’t get me anything but I don’t give to recieve I did it because I know his family wouldn’t get him anything and I wanted him to have something to open on Christmas morning before he goes to his mums for dinner. He said thanks for thinking about him im the only one that thinks of him I call him around midday hes still home and he’s getting ready to go out and I asked him if he had opened my gifts and he said no he has to do the important things first and go and help his mum cook and later when he gets back he will open them..its now evening like wtf..why he didn’t open them this morning all the effort I went to..he said he’s playing games with his family which is OK its Christmas but I feel like why did I bother..I want to mention it am I being childish I don’t know…