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Almost free
I’m married, but getting divorced, I’m about 45 days away from being free.Please keep an open mind when reading this because I am not a serial “cheater”.
5 months ago I by chance, met a guy at work. No initial huge attraction at first, but after a few weeks of work emails, and me being silly and fun, he checked me out on LinkedIn. I was a little surprised, but then it clicked – he’s interested. So I sent him an invite to connect. He immediately accepted.
Now, my marriage. We were having problems and I was wholeheartedly trying to get my hubby to go to counseling and work through it. It was not going well, and I was starting to check out.
So work guy and I slowly started texting, flirting and I eventually took it to a sexting level. Teasing and sending him outright blatent texts about sex and how turned on he made me. We were both full of sexual tension. BUT, he knows I’m married still, but having problems. Finally, at a work friends birthday party, he showed up after I’d had a few drinks. I went to another part of the var and texted him to come upstairs. He came. I gave him the “it’s timeRaven
Hi Almost…
The best advice I can give you is to not become emotionally invested in anyone… Play, flirt, have a diversion or two, but, enjoy being single & find out who you really are.Almost free
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LAgirl
There is no rest of the post?
But, based on what you wrote, you went straight to fwb with this man… Is that what you wanted. It’s ok if all you wanted was sex, but sexting a man into a relationship rarely works.
Stefanie
I hate to tell you this but someone “checking you out” on Linked In is a business thing, not a personal thing. Linked In is NOT Facebook!
You’ve aggressively pursued this man to help you get through the pain of a disintegrating marriage. That’s not a judgment, just stating what it looks like from an objective standpoint.
You’ve got no basis for a real relationship.
joanne
If it makes you feel better, every man I was ever attracted to never was attracted to me. This has been all my life. Now I’m 50 and married to someone I love but not in love but he loves me and cares about me. I have been rejected my whole live. If you cant find love, marry for money. It’s better than being with someone you don’t like with no money or being alone with no money. Life just doesn’t work out the way you want it to. Honestly, I think it sucks if you never get want you want.
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