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olivia.
Rachel
I found condom wrappers in my boyfriend’s dresser. We have not used condoms since we became “exclusive” and he got that dresser AFTER we became exclusive. He has been acting shady lately and I fear the worst. Should I say something or wait?
Options2
Yes – only if you do it calmly and ready to walk away.
You should walk away if this is not a long relationship.
Rachel
I have a history of trust issues so I don’t always know what to do. I was snooping around and that’s how I found them. I expect if he has been messing around , his reaction will be to point out that I was snooping as a way to deflect.
Eric CharlesI don’t see the point in confronting him or talking to him about it…
I mean, he’s sleeping with other women even though you both agreed to be exclusive.
Soooo… what’s the upshot of confronting him or talking to him about it?
The evidence is clear, you already know the deal…
If you want to keep hooking up with him without the illusion that you’re in a relationship, then that’s fine – that’s your business…
But the agreement you have is already an illusion, you know that, and if you’re looking to have an exclusive relationship with a guy, this guy clearly isn’t it.
Why waste another second on trying to make something you don’t want into something that you want?
You don’t need to explain yourself. You don’t need to confront him. You don’t need to talk about it.
Brush yourself off and be single again. And be happy – you’re no longer in the dark, you know where you stand now, there’s no illusion or confusion anymore.
Rachel
Wow, Eric, thanks so much for responding! It’s what I needed to get myself out of the fog. I just ended it with him. I did call him and told him I knew, though, only because he owes me money and I wanted to tell him to mail it to me. He had nothing to say. But I feel liberated now. It’s sad, and it hurts, but I also have relief. Thank you.
seriouslee
What!! You get the key master to respond to your post?!! Lucky gal ????
Eric CharlesYou’re welcome – glad it was helpful.
Vixen
If he had been acting shady than it is possible he is sleeping around.
However could be possible that he just MOVED condoms to the new dresser from somewhere else???
Stating the Obvious
Um.. Eric Charles is hot! I had no idea! lol
olivia
You did very well in ending it with him. I think Eric helped speed up the process! I am very sorry about this, it hurts to be cheated on, but best it’s ended now rather than down the line. x
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