I hate when guys ask for pics

You are not alone. When I was doing the online thing that was my major pet peeve.
I would tell then to refer back to the site and that I didn’t feel comfortbale sending pics to a stranger.

Your feelings are your feelings – but think of it this way:

Men are visual – that is how they get attracted. Period. It is a matter of biology.

Women connect through learning more – what he does, is he close to his family

So, to men, asking those questions are as intrusive and indeed mean you are asking for a resume.

If you want to date men, you have to be willing to show them what you look like, or date women, and even women care what you look like.

Amy S, They always seem to want more pictures of me

Talllady, Now that you go into detail it makes sense, but why can’t they just ask to meet up? They’ll get a chance to see the real thing in person.

Its a strange one. I came away from the online dating as it was too exhausting for me. The pictures it could be that some girls put on old ones where they look younger and slimmer than they do presently and they might be wondering if that’s the case. I don’t know, I would always say meet first as a picture is only one dimensional and personally I could never gauge attraction from a picture as they could be good looking but dull, quiet, shy or thick or lacking personality in which case looks don’t really matter lol x Do I sound brutal ? Good x

yes!!! you could give them 10 and they still want more!! soooo annoying

I’m not sure why this is happening to you I’ve never once had a man ask me for more pictures. Are you on the verge of overweight? I don’t ask this to be mean, I ask it because that might be the issue. I’m pretty tall and slender and its very very clear from my photos if that’s the case, men want to know whether or not you are overweight or not. This is because women often misrepresent what they look like.

Six should be just fine especially if you have some full body ones. Don’t send any additional pictures.

I’ve got plenty of pictures, and specify that they’re recent. Some guys insist on asking if I have Snapchat… right after we’ve started talking. No, dude. Just no.

Sure, but they can wait until they meet me.
I hate that they are so visual.
And not because I’m ugly.
I’m the opposite.
And it’s all they freakin well care about.
I hate them.
They suck.

I hated that too! There was a time, when I only had one profile pic, and I realized, only one pic can be enough for men to approach me, no matter what. Jeez, when I had like 6 photos, there were creepy guys who would saw my pics many times a day without writing me….(disadvantage of the dating apps is, you can see who saw your profile and how many times lol)

(I sent only, when a guy sent me back or sent me first,then I responded back.(but only when we knew each others cell number and talked on the phone too!)

Argh, this happens to me all the time. I politely tell them that “I do not like sending my pics to strangers, but we can plan a meeting” if they become defensive etc I stop talking to them…. Some actually ask for more pictures even after first date so…. its mysterious

oh thank God. I thought I was the only one feeling like this. It is so bloody annoying and then when you deny them they think you’re being difficult.