I hate when guys ask for pics

Oops, if there ARE pics.

Honestly I can’t figure this out . You’ve met me In person…. I’ve sent some pics and yet you’re asking for more. My stock response is I look exactly the same as I did in person and the last 3 pics I sent. If men are so visual, plan a date and see me in person.

My previous guy always asked for pics but he also loved sending them.

My guy never asks for pics (why I love sending them sometimes). He did ask for a pic of me without facepaint before we went on our first date because when we met, I was dressed as a calavera with sugar skull face paint and he had no clue what I actually looked like. He was worried I was secretly a troll because I asked him, he didn’t think a normal to cute girl would initiate contact with him without being friends for ages first.

I’ve had a guy I have been chatting to and met up with a couple of times completely freak out because I wouldn’t send him naked pictures. I mean, COMPLETELY freak out, accusing me of being anti-feminist, promoting inequality, leading him on, honestly – it was actually quite frightening. It was as though he felt he owned me and the right to my images and he was livid that I didn’t feel comfortable sending them.

He said, “I’m not being a dick, but you’re being unreasonable because I’ve sent pictures to you”. Which I didn’t want or ask for, which made me feel a bit ill, and which I asked him NOT to send me!

So I feel your pain ladies. Honestly, sometimes dating sites suck.

When they ask or harrass me, I send a photo of flowers or yarn!

lol, thats hilarious

Weird. Did online dating for about 6 months, was never asked for a pic prior to meeting. Once seriously dating, we usually end up sending each other random pics- some of ourselves, some of whatever we’re doing- hiking, drinking, lake, food, etc. I NEVER send “nudes”, if a guy I like asks, I tell him it’s out of my comfort zone. I’ve NEVER received a d*ck pic THANK GOD! And I’m actually not the biggest fan of guys wanting to take a million pics of me/us when we’re together. Sometimes it’s endearing but very quickly becomes too much. Any type of exaggerated interest in my looks is one of the quickest ways to turn me off.

Oh shut up, you just want someone to buy you dinner. Lol

Asking for pictures is just their game to see how far they can make you go also when they keep asking and being persistent they just wanna feel in control. Guys just take it too far wht happen to all the gentleman?

What if we’ve been talking for a good few months, and we’ve got off the site and have each others numbers??

The thing is it started off great, we talked a lot, then slowly died down a bit, and ended only talking now and again after a week or 2 even, so i assumed he wasn’t interested, so i didn’t bother initiating conversation after a while.

At this point we did have each others numbers for a while and were on snapchat, i knew his brother was getting married so he had a lot going on, but he started talking a lot again, then his father died, so i didn’t bug him too much, and now were back talking A LOT again, but this time, he initiates every conversation, hes doing the chasing! Which is good!

Now we snapchat everyday, mostly evenings, cause we both have busy work schedules, he does now and again mention that he snaps me more than i snap him, but any snaps i have ever sent him are decent, id never send anything i wouldn’t put online on FB myself, so is it normal for him to be after more snaps?

i dont think it matters how many pics you have, how good they are or whether you are slim or not, there will be men who just simply ask the question – can you send more pics.just because they simply like to ask the question and probably they are being sleazy, but sometimes they might just be curious. it never concerned me that they wanted more but i would just say sorry i dont have any more pics at the moment

My girlfriends who do online dating complain about this all the time. I agree it’s annoying but think about it from the man’s perspective, though. Many women post old pictures of themselves and I believe men get tired of showing up for a date with a woman who looks nothing like he expected. I always advise my friends to tell the man, I’m not comfortable giving pics of myself to a man I don’t know, but why don’t we FaceTime so you can see that I look like the pics I posted on my profile? FaceTime (or Skype) has the advantage that you will be able to see if there is no face-to-face chemistry, preventing you from wasting time on a dead-end date.