I initiated a fight, and he said some rude things – how do we fix this?

We have been dating for 4 weeks and its been really great, we talking about being in a relationship and having the conversation. We talk about meeting siblings and friends and progressing things.

Except for this last week we’ve been getting into a lot of fights. The last one was on me, he is having a very busy couple of weeks and i complained that i don’t see him often. And he explained it to me that he is busy but in the past guys have blown me off with that excuse so I asked again and was strict as in this is not sustainable for a relationship.

It ended up being a fight and I realized I was wrong. I was trying to admit my mistake but he said some rude things to me in anger which were out of line.

He and I eventually did apologize to each other at the end and I apologized once more this evening.

I feel worried that things are on thier way to an end. We’ve gotten very close but now he feels distant. He continues to text me but he isn’t affectionate anymore. I am not sure if its the busy time or its me.

I would like to fix it, but I don’t know how.

Any advice?

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