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    Paula

    So go easy its my first post.
    I slept with my friend. We had been hanging out for a month and a half. We’ve known each other for years but began hanging out a month and a half ago. So a week and a half ago We were watching movies and one thing led to another and we had sex. At first I did not want to but he did pressure me and I gave in. Afterwards things became awkward. We barely talk like before. We used text through out the night and go out but now its like nothing. He asked how I was I said I was doing good. I did also lose my but he still has my latest point of contact info. I have tried to talk (which was a week later) it seems like he said he had work and was up late. But I know better I’ve known him to procrastinate and to be a late night owl. It just seems like he just doesn’t want to talk he used to vent to me before but that is gone. I feel like him being nice to me was all just so he could get one thing and be done with it. But what hurts is that I used to consider him a friend and now it just seems like he’s being a jerk. What should I do?

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    Ashley

    don’t talk to him anymore

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    Raven

    This doesn’t sit well with me…

    How did he pressure you?

    #420781 Reply
    Boog

    Sounds like a lousy friend. Don’t contact him again.

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    Paula

    We started making out and he kept trying to push me to go farther and I said no. I was fine making out I just did not want to go all the way because something in my gut told me it would be a bad idea. I should have stopped right there but I kept on making out with him and he began to push and in a moment of weakness I gave in.

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    Pollyanne

    I agree w the others, that is not a friend. I am so sorry this happened to you.

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    Raven

    The others are correct… This guy is NOT a friend. He is an douche!

    Stay far far away from him :(

    #421125 Reply
    Lauren

    My advice to you is not to watch movies with guys unless you wanna hook up with them. If you didn’t know before, you should know now that if a guy is asking you to watch a movie with him it means he wants to hook up or he’s gonna make a move. This is why I don’t watch movies with guys anymore because I don’t want to do that and I see through it.

    #421129 Reply
    Sin

    I agree with Lauren. ‘Let’s cuddle and watch a movie at home’ is = ‘Let’s hook up’. If you really feel like watching a movie, go to the cinema. Also go to a guy’s apartment only when you really trust him and you’ve reached a stage in your relationship where you’re comfortable and emotionally well connected.

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