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Paula
So go easy its my first post.
I slept with my friend. We had been hanging out for a month and a half. We’ve known each other for years but began hanging out a month and a half ago. So a week and a half ago We were watching movies and one thing led to another and we had sex. At first I did not want to but he did pressure me and I gave in. Afterwards things became awkward. We barely talk like before. We used text through out the night and go out but now its like nothing. He asked how I was I said I was doing good. I did also lose my but he still has my latest point of contact info. I have tried to talk (which was a week later) it seems like he said he had work and was up late. But I know better I’ve known him to procrastinate and to be a late night owl. It just seems like he just doesn’t want to talk he used to vent to me before but that is gone. I feel like him being nice to me was all just so he could get one thing and be done with it. But what hurts is that I used to consider him a friend and now it just seems like he’s being a jerk. What should I do?Ashleydon’t talk to him anymore
RavenThis doesn’t sit well with me…
How did he pressure you?
BoogSounds like a lousy friend. Don’t contact him again.
PaulaWe started making out and he kept trying to push me to go farther and I said no. I was fine making out I just did not want to go all the way because something in my gut told me it would be a bad idea. I should have stopped right there but I kept on making out with him and he began to push and in a moment of weakness I gave in.
PollyanneI agree w the others, that is not a friend. I am so sorry this happened to you.
RavenThe others are correct… This guy is NOT a friend. He is an douche!
Stay far far away from him :(
LaurenMy advice to you is not to watch movies with guys unless you wanna hook up with them. If you didn’t know before, you should know now that if a guy is asking you to watch a movie with him it means he wants to hook up or he’s gonna make a move. This is why I don’t watch movies with guys anymore because I don’t want to do that and I see through it.
SinI agree with Lauren. ‘Let’s cuddle and watch a movie at home’ is = ‘Let’s hook up’. If you really feel like watching a movie, go to the cinema. Also go to a guy’s apartment only when you really trust him and you’ve reached a stage in your relationship where you’re comfortable and emotionally well connected.
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