i texted happy birthday and he did not even say thanks

okay so another problem I messaged him and said exactly this (from what I can remember)

“hey heard you weren’t feeling well, hope ya get better”.

he didn’t look at the message .. that’s not like him? what could be the problem? is it that he cant see the message ? cause he needs an app to see them, but he did before, so is he ignoring me? I didn’t do anything ? Please Help ?

no this is the first time, and he was super nice to me, always trying to make me laugh, and he is really nice, but he hasn’t been feeling well also, also he is in my youth group, and I don’t think he is going to change ? I haven’t been around him yet to see if he acts differently , I don’t think he will. he’s not that kind of person.

I agree with the above.

The guy is seeing someone else and doesn’t care about you. You are wasting all your energy on a guy that is not giving you what you want.
Drop him, move on, there are thousands of suitable men out there for you.

wait what are you guys seeming so confused. he only didn’t answer me this once, and there could be other reasons why, like he was sick, maybe it didn’t send, maybe he doesn’t have the app to view it, but besides this how does he sound ?

You have to look at the big picture dear – is he just playing around with you and not serious or considering you to be his GF?

Just because a guy is “nice” doesn’t mean anything. Players can be nice to get what they want.

My take is that if he keeps being inconsistent and you are always questioning his motives or what his emails say, the guy is not for you. I wasted 2 years of my life on a flake like this and found out he was seeing other women but kept saying I Love You all the time.

Beware of players!!!

I am sorry dear but if he is causing you to question everything and you are a nervous wreck, he is not worth it.

Sometimes people don’t answer a text because they are busy, just didn’t feel like it, didn’t know how to answer or are otherwise occupied.

Best not to sit around in a state of anxiety trying to figure him out. If he is causing you so much uncertainty, I would keep my options open with other guys.

and im not a nervous wreck lol

You are obviously very young and don’t have much experience with guys.

This guy is not interested in you, beyond reaching out when he is bored and has nothing else going on.

A guy who is interested will find any excuse to talk to you and be around you. He isn’t doing anything.

You can disregard what everyone is telling you, and continue pursuing this, but I seriously doubt it’s going anywhere.

He is barely acknowledging you. A boy that’s into a girl wants to talk to her, get to know everything about her and spend time with her one on one. If you contintue chasing him, and that is exactly what it looks like, you will get your feelings hurt and likely be uncomfortable at youth group.

Back up and stop reaching out. See if he does any initiating. Social media “likes” and some texts mean zero. You are ascribing mean to behavior that means absolutely nothing.

He knows you like him, I’m fairly sure you’ve made it obvious, yet he isn’t stepping up in any way. That’s how we know he’s not into it.

he talked to me once , and some guys don’t like texting. sometimes I don’t like texting. he does reach out, and I don’t make it to obvious. he was the one that started the whole thing, and I left him alone, cause I though he was like the others, but so far he is good.

He talked to you once. He isn’t making any real effort to get to know you, and he isn’t asking you out or trying to date you.

He likes you as a friend or enough to distract himself with when nothing else is going on, but this isn’t the behavior of a guy that wants more.

You will need to learn this the hard way. Good luck

Did someone add a topic for kindergarten topics, and I missed it?

sorry for the confusion. I just realized why you guys were so confused..