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kamk
The guy i have been going on dates with for the past week has been acting a little distant from my end. He was j tiationg a lot and i would initiate some too. So i assumed he wasn’t interested anymore Because he’s been stand offing for two days so i texted him and asked him what was wrong and he said “nothing baby” and i said “i just miss talking to you but I’m going to back off a little from you” and he replied… “damn okay”
That’s itLane
This is what’s dating about. Its not about getting into a relationship with a guy who takes you on a date, but one who wants to spend a lot of time getting to know you that may or may not evolve into anything based on how those experiences (time spent together) go.
We all have qualities and traits that are desirable to one but not another. I call it the “it factor” where if you have it, a man will naturally be compelled to spend a copious amount of time with you. Remember, these guys are *strangers*, no differently than all the other strangers you meet in your daily life, where none, one or two out of say 50 may end up becoming a friend, best friend, or even a boyfriend because you BOTH (key word) super like each other in a way that you don’t feel with others—same concept
If a man goes distant, he is telling you its a *no go.* He isn’t interested in getting to know you, no differently than you’re not interested in going on a date with a guy you have no attraction towards or interest in getting to know them romantically. Do not take dating rejection personal, its not personal, as men are tying to meet someone they really like or attracted to in a way that naturally compels them to want to keep seeing them, no differently than you are naturally compelled to select a friend because you BOTH like each other enough to get to know each other by spending time together to determine if the friendship will last or fall flat and go on your merry ways.
Just know this. A man’s *TIME* (in person) is the most precious gift he gives to those he truly cares about or loves. Knowing this will help you to not overly invest in a man who is not making a major investment in both his time and $$$ in getting to know you in person, not over a stupid phone as that’s cheap, lazy, and easy to do—taking you out and spending his time and money on you is making an investment, those who only text and don’t take you out are not.
Dangerouse
That text you sent him was kinda begging. And his reply was lukewarm. Stop chasing.
Kamk
I feel like his response was simple rejection
Raven
Never tell a guy you’re backing off, just do it… A simple step back…
Honeypie
You’ve been dating him for a week? Is that what you’re saying? Not sure why he’s calling you babe in a week.
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