I think I pissed off my FWB. Is he over it already?

sorry this is so long…I like to add details 😅

We actually used to date years ago. He moved out east and then I moved out of state years ago but we both came back home due to the quarantine.

We reconnected when we got back and decided to spend the day at the lake. The moment we saw each other it was like we hadn’t skipped a beat. After a few hours, he kissed me. We couldn’t keep our hands off each other (only g rated stuff). After he kissed me he admitted that he wanted to kiss me the moment he saw me. Our attraction was strong I knew we wouldn’t be able to keep things G-rated for so long. I told him I didn’t want a quarantine F-buddy. He laughed and said, “so you thought I contacted you so I could have sex with you? We have other people we could hang out with. I chose to come hang out with you”. We were a little buzzed and he said if I wanted to come out to NY where he’s at I could and invited me to his friend’s lake house. He just started throwing all this stuff out there that we could do lol. He then apologized for how he handled our relationship all those years ago. We ended up hanging out 9 hours that day.

So we kept hanging out and each time we got a little more handsy with one another. We ended up talking more about our childhood issues and some other heavy topics. I said again, how I didn’t want a quarantine f-buddy and he responded with, “we aren’t even having sex” and I said I didn’t plan on sleeping with him. He said that it was okay we didn’t have to do anything. He then turned to me and said, “you can’t even look me in the eyes when you’re talking to me”. I said pssh, yes I can I just have a hard time staying still. He said prove it, look at me in my eyes more than 10 seconds. Looking back that was probably a setup….

2 weeks ago he went to go visit some close friends that he hadn’t seen in years. He thought I went out of town (changed my plans) too. He said he would’ve asked me to go with him to visit his friends had he had known I wasn’t leaving. He suggested we take a little camping trip somewhere since I missed out on going with him to visit his friends. Later that week we went to go play miniature golf. Then we went to hang by the lake again where we ended up talking for hours. He turned to me and said, “you know you’re super into me”. I laughed and said, “or I was just bored during the quarantine and needed something to do and you were around”. In a laughing manner, he said, “oh yea, well me too. I was just bored. I’m glad we cleared that up”. We ended up having sex and afterward, I turned to him and patted his shoulder and said, “well I guess we’re officially f buddies now”. He didn’t say anything. We eventually just laid there while he stroked my arm and we just chilled like that for a while. I asked if he’s usually this touchy (it’s been so long since we dated I couldn’t remember) and he said, “yea when I feel connected”. He then started saying how I was cold but then corrected himself and said, “not cold, just guarded”. He ended up sending me the freezing face emoji and said that was me -_- lol.

A few days later he suggested we take a beach trip. On the day of the trip, he switched up where we going and said his sister and her friends were at this particular beach and that’s where we were going to go instead. On the 2.5 hour drive there he didn’t really talk. I kept trying to make conversation with him, to the point where it felt like forced small talk. It just ended up feeling awkward. He seemed a little off so I asked if he got agitated easily. He said sometimes he can and he asked if I thought he was agitated. I said, no, as I tend to overthink things and just let it go. We get there and the vibe between us was just so…off with us, at least in my mind. He usually is very touchy – coming up behind me, nuzzling my neck, etc., but that day barely anything. Not even a kiss. He just smacked my butt when I was reaching for something in the car lol and tried to toss me in the water but that was it. We said our goodbyes to his sister then headed back home and that’s when it kind of hit the fan.

On the drive back we started talking about his past anger issues. He asked me when was the last time I was really angry and I said a few months ago with my ex. Somehow that conversation went into earlier that day and I said, “yea I thought you were kind of agitated earlier” Y’all he was PISSED. He said, “I asked you earlier if thought I was agitated and you told me no. You tried to ask me in a slick way by asking if I get agitated easily instead of just asking me straight up. I’ve been lied to all my life (he’s got daddy issues) and I shouldn’t have to tell someone to keep things real with me. That’s the kind of stuff that pisses me off. I knew something was off, I could just feel the energy. Yea, I wasn’t talking much this morning and I knew you were trying to make conversation but you should’ve just told me”. I just sat there kind of shocked because I didn’t think it was all that serious? I told him I assumed he was agitated but I wasn’t sure so I just let it go.

He kind of calmed down and said, “I get that you weren’t trying to be confrontational but I wanted you to be straight up with me”. I just kept saying, “mmhmm”. He turned to me and said, “now I feel like you’re the one agitated” I said no you’re telling me how you feel and I’m just listening. He tried to crack a corny joke and I laughed and said, “this is why didn’t like you 4 years ago and why I don’t like you now”. He turned and said, “I’m getting bad vibes now. I’m not trying to make you feel bad. Did I make you feel bad?” I said, honestly yea a little bit. He apologized. This was all happening as he was pulling up to my car. I hop out and he starts putting my beach things in my car and I hand him his snacks that I put in my bag. He said, “you don’t want to keep them?” I said no and kind of stood there. We gave each other an awkward hug then I went home.

He texted me the next day asking how I was feeling and I said, “ehhh..you?”. I figured everything was all good since he made contact the next day. He replied and said he wasn’t drinking anymore. I felt physically felt awful that day and didn’t respond to him until 8 hours later. I told him I just woke up and that I wasn’t feeling well. He responded 24 hours later and completely changed the topic and started talking about a show. We texted on and off for the next day and I eventually face-timed him. He didn’t pick up.

I haven’t heard from him in 3 days, but he’s looked at in my insta stories. We talked pretty much every day so not hearing from him is odd. I thought since we were hanging out 8-10 hours each time and talking almost every day our FWB was going well. Him getting that angry and I guess disappearing/ignoring me just really threw me off.

Is he angry or lost interest/just over being FWB already?