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July 26, 2020 at 5:17 am #797964Linzi
Last year I met a guy and we started dating.
Told me he was getting feelings and we just clicked.
He then told me it was getting too full on and he was incapable of a relationship.
He was texting many women and sleeping with them as well as me.
He’s got form of not being able to be in a relationship.
He had his heart broke and I think he is messed up.
This continued for 7months.
We went on a date and he stayed at mine,then the week after he slept with the bar maid In his car and put pics on his snapchat of the girls handprints all over his car.
I was heartbroken.
We continued to text and speak daily.
Then I flipped and said he wasn’t a nice guy (he kept sending me screenshots of girls messaging him ) making me jealous.
We didn’t speak for a month.
Then we started speaking.(5 months)
I asked him 2 days again did he want to meet up (as friends ) he said no.
I get the wrong idea and he doesn’t trust himself around me,if we sleep together I will think more is going on.
He told me he didn’t do dates and never called our meetings dates.
Last night he plastered over Facebook he was on a “date”
The girl he is on a date with ..he sent me a screenshot two weeks ago of her saying “can we please meet after 7 months chatting for sex,can’t wait”
So she will be another one getting the same treatment.
I text him last night saying
“Me and you can’t speak anymore,I keep getting my feelings hurt,I hope you like this woman”
He replied
“It’s your choice if you don’t want to speak,and I’ve told you many times ..I don’t like anybody,it’s how I like it”
Did I do the right thing ?July 26, 2020 at 6:41 am #797968Lane
Not to be harsh but may I ask where or when you lost your dignity? I have no idea why you allowed it to go for this long without being just plain disgusted by his behavior. Let him get an STD, and be thankful you don’t either. Oh and its a big HELL YES to stop any and all contact with Mr. Player, now and in the future!
July 26, 2020 at 12:34 pm #798021Ss
I’m concerned that you even think you need to ask if you did the right thing! Of course you did and you should have done it months ago.
This guy has TOLD you who he is and he has SHOWED you who he is. Why on earth would you want to speak to him or ever see him again????
July 26, 2020 at 1:35 pm #798025Raven
Why did you tolerate his crap for so long?
July 26, 2020 at 2:32 pm #798032Linzi
I thought I could change him.
I thought eventually he would realise I would treat him well and look after him.
I actually had feelings for him.
Stupid I know.July 26, 2020 at 3:47 pm #798042K
You’ve posted this story last year, using the exact same wording. Except it was a woman you were dating. You were told a long time ago to stop posting under various names, because you kept posting the same story after getting a lot of good advice. You were told repeatedly this woman is using you and will never be serious about you because she had told you that very directly multiple times plus she loves to rub it in your face when she f***s another woman but you for whatever reason persist in thinking you can change her which obviously you can’t.
This is either a fake post or you are a serious glutton for punishment and a total doormat and need help far beyond this site to get your self esteem and common sense out of the basement.
July 27, 2020 at 1:30 pm #798202ANM StaffKeymasterYeah, K’s on-track. You have been repeatedly told to stop changing names, and you were told specifically to stop posting on this forum.
I hope you find help and get clarity about these issues.
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