i want him but, should i let him go

i agree with the above posters. hes somewhat interested. but it also comes across that hes not that keen to pursue this. its only the OP who is persistent in her chase. I had mentioned in my earlier post that since your so keen and attrcted to him, sure do get in touch and see how things go. and she did. and the guy said no. that’s fine. i also suggested that in case he says no, pls walk away gracefully. there is no shame in approaching someone you like. but if hes reluctant and not that keen and you still chase, that just shows your desperation and little respect for self.

i have had nice men chase me. But when I say no, and they still chase, well then at such times you sometimes give in and agree to meet since you feel a little sorry for them. its always flattering when men like you. but that’s about it. and you feel well its ok to meet for a coffee or lunch or dinner since they have asked to meet so many times. but rarely has it happened that on meeting these men, I have changed my mind.

all the best to the OP.

Flor – OK so then go out with him and have a good time and stop posting here, since you have it all figured out and you’re not interested in the advice you came here asking for. Don’t be a jerk and insult people who called it like they saw it because it’s not what you wanted to hear. Good luck to you.

This sounds like Sonia/Marcia/Sandra/etc again.