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Laura
There’s this guy I’ve been texting everyday for the last 6-8 weeks. We met on a holiday over the Christmas break and live in other cities, but we really click. We’re both 25.
It’s been 2 months and nothing is progressing beyond our daily texting. We sometimes sext and he’s also asked me to come over and visit him, but he hasn’t pushed it enough for me to take it seriously. So I’ve stepped back a little. A more local guy has asked me out on a date and I don’t want to say no to him because I’m holding out for this long distance guy that might not even lead anywhere.
Today the long distance guy texted asking how I was doing. I didn’t respond and after a few hours he texted again saying that he hoped I was doing okay. He double-texted saying the same thing. What does this mean? Is he getting clingy/insecure because he thinks he might lose me? Is it a sign of desperation in a guy? Or could he just genuinely like me?
Just torn between these two guys at the moment and I’ll admit it, I like the long distance one more, but if it’s not leading anywhere then I don’t want to give up the other one completely.
Khadija
I think you need to let go of the fantasy with the long distance guy.
He could be married for all you know and just passing time by texting with you.
This guy has made no effort to see you so, whatever you are holding on to please let it go.
If you truly aren’t interested in the other guy, let him go as well.
Please keep in mind there are lots of men out there, so you have options.
Stop wasting time on men who aren’t for you.
kaye
It is so sad to me that a woman is looking at something as simple as a double text from a guy to grasp for any hint he may actually be interested! It doesn’t work that way!! If a man isn’t asking you out, making plans to see you and actually SEEING you..then his level of interest is way low!!! It doesn’t take 2 months for a guy to make arrangements to see you if he’s interested. And this guy hasn’t even offered that, he’s only asked you to come see him. He’s making no effort I’m sure he’s having fun sexting with you but the truth is he’s probably dating and doing the same with other girls. Drop him if he can’t make plans to see you ASAP!! It’s a waste of time.
Raven
It means, he wants You to do all of the work & free sex, for his wee little investment…
HE should be making plans to come see You…
L
‘Double text?’ No. A phone call, flowers and a date is the sign you want to look for.
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