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Jackie
I am sorry he had these one night stands when he was married to his Ex. He was married for 20 years before and cheated on her within the first two years. I have only just found out what he did. He doesn’t know I know about these one night stands as I am not sure if it is my business if it was before we met. He has been very good to me for the last 5 years but I certainly had no idea he was like this
Lauren
Probably. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Why would you even bother with someone with this history? Plenty of men out there who don’t have a history of cheating.
Sophia
Absolutely.
Mary
Once a cheater always a cheater is not true. That is far too much of a cliche that everyone throws around. Sometimes the cheater learned their lesson and they would never ever do it again. I’ve seen that plenty of times. And it is not true at all that past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. No, it’s sometimes the least useful indicator. It depends to what level the guy has matured and what his priorities are now.
jen
he’ll definitely cheat again, im sorry, that’s a habit
i don’t believe if you keep your man/women happy they will never cheat again, they will if you they have a chance plus in their mind, you will always forgive them as you already forgave them once
Lane
Yes, I believe he will cheat on you if he hasn’t already.
I don’t believe “once a cheater, always a cheater”, as its case-by-case due to specific circumstances that COULD compel one to cheat, for instance if a wife/SO stops having sex and the man is starved for sexual contact I could see them being driven to that point out of sexual frustration, whereas cheating is a whole lot cheaper than divorce. I was surprised at how common this is when talking to married men because my (now ex) husband and I had lots of sex during our entire 20+ year marriage so he didn’t have a reason or need to cheat lol.
However, for those who have a history of infidelity the chances they will never cheat again is super low—its not a matter of IF, but WHEN.
I couldn’t remain with a guy upon gaining this information as it shows he’s very deceitful, dishonest and untrustworthy. I don’t have time to track or wonder where he is, who he’s talking to and who he wants to hook up with. If you stay and he cheats then you can’t be shocked, surprised or angry knowing what you know and say/do nothing.
Anon
If you are scared in this cheating situation; first thing is to go therapist and express your fear. Let the professional help you to deal with your fear. Once you are able to deal with your fear, then the comments will make sense to you
shirley
This happened on valentine’s day, I caught my husband with his ex wife at a dinner party in a restaurant in Cornwall, I cried home and almost hit a truck. I actually has concluded that we are done from this marriage, but I took a second thought when I got home,
shirley
I caught my husband with his ex wife at a dinner party in a restaurant in Cornwall, I cried home and almost hit a truck.
Tallspicy
Please make a new thread.
And ask a question and hugs, I am so sorry!
ANM StaffMod update: Hi Shirley, I’m very sorry to hear about your situation.
As Tallspicy suggested, it would be best if you started a new thread. Your post appears as a comment on a thread which started a long time ago, and our community tends not to respond to topics like that. Go ahead and start a fresh new thread, and I’m sure our community will offer you compassion and advice for how to handle what’s happening.
Best wishes to you!
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