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Scarlet
There is a guy I have a crush on. He is hot, in my opinion. I kinda low key made a move on him(which wasnt really a move, i asked him if we could be friends), but he was not interested. So i jokingly said he was cruel. And just left him alone coz i thought thats what he wanted. A few months back he added me on facebook i guess maybe he added me by mistake hahaha.but i think he kinda felt guilty for swerving me when i made a move on him. When i wanted to look through his pics it said there were no pics to show bcoz i was restricted from seeing his facebook pics. And since we were now fb friends, instagram always included him on the “who to follow” list. i always ignored that and never followed him. One day when i checked, his account was now private. I was like wooaah, what is going on here? is this a coincidence? i think not. So i followed him and he accepted my follow request but didnt follow back. Smh i think it goes to show that he doesnt find me attractive. He follows other girls from school who are popular and pretty. The guy is actually really shy and there were some few signs(all the cliche signs-no big deal) that made me think he liked me thats why i made a move in the first place. Is it even possible for guys to not follow back a girl they have a crush on, on instagram?? I doubt it. To make matters worse, the guy always ignores me in real life. So i just blocked him on all social media now there is nothing linking me to him except school. But what if he actually likes me? It’s kinda possible coz once i spoke him when he wasnt expecting it and he was really kinda nervous and his hands were kinda shaky.( i was puzzled by that coz he talks to girls who are hotter than me and seems fine, so i thought maybe i was imagining things) Cmon guys pls tell me he doesnt like me so i wont feel bad for blocking him.
jennifer Lynne
Hey Scarlet,
Love your name btw! I remember when I was in high school I was very self conscience about what guys thought of me. I would get depressed, happy, sad, elated, bummed all based on what was usually a terrible misinterpretation of what someone was actually thinking of me. I would run into guys from high school years later at reunions, restaurants etc. and some would tell me they had a crush on me and I would remember that these guys were not necessarily nice to me. Go figure! Some were nice (in high school and college) just to try to have sex with me. So the bottom line is…be yourself, relax, have fun, don’t assume what someone is thinking, be confident in who you are, be beautiful (inside and outside) however you define that, love yourself, be kind to all, really don’t care what people think of you ’cause you’re awesome and you know it (in a humble sort of way) and if you are being you and a guy (or anyone) doesn’t like you……they don’t deserve you. I know I didn’t exactly address your concerns but I wish someone would have told me this when I was in high school. Maybe this helps somehow.
😘 Jen
jennifer Lynne
Self conscious not self conscience. Hate typos. :)
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Are you even old enough to drink alcohol?
Crisula
block him if you want
Frankly Scarlett….he doesn’t give a damn.
Laura
Frankly Crisula….she is probably not old enough to get the reference, but it was a good one.
Laura
By the way, I don’t think he is interested at all, but when I was 16 I had a guy who ignored me or the few times he would talk to me he was always criticizing. I had a crush on him and I couldn’t even get my revenge by blocking him on social media because they didn’t exist.
Turned out he was a massive crush on me and was too shy to make a move (he told me like 20 years later). So you either really go for it, risking to be pathetic (and be prepared if that happens) or you might really get the guy if he’s pathologically shy, but I won’t hold my hopes too high. Second, and wisest choice, you just forget about him, Instagram or not.
alia
Some silly folk, who care about social media make sure they follow less people than they steel themselves following, True story.
Other than that, play more chess. It will put you ahead of the game whether or not this guy knows of your existence. Because in twenty years he may be fat and bold, but you will be smart.
And take math. Never shy away from math.Crisula
Margaret Mitchell died in the 1940’s, however I read Gone with the Wind at 12… and I listen to Beethoven, who was also before my time…so your comment, Laura, made little sense.
:)Crisula
I have also seen the movie multiple times that was released in 1940.
Crisula
“which was”…excuse me
Scarlet
Woow thank you Jen. I really needed to hear that. yaay!! I’m glad i wrote in.😍 😘 i will definitely take your advice.
Scarlet
Lol Alia I think i get what you’re saying, there are more important things in life than this guy. That is soo true
Scarlet
Hey Laura i think it IS better for me to just forget about him. He is not worth all the trouble.
Scarlet
Crisula hahaha point blank! That is actually true. He doesnt give a damn.
Scarlet
L, hahaha nope I am not old enough to drink.
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