I’m confused

I have been dating this guy and it seems like he wants sex more than he wants me but he kept denying it to a point I don’t know if I’m being delusional with my feeling.
Cuz every time we met we would date but then eventually had sex. A couple times when I said I’m not feeling like having sex we just ended up not meeting up. But he kept saying that our sex was the best ever that’s why he wants it so bad. And it somehow “validates” me in a weird way that I kept doing it.
But recently I told him I don’t think we are compatible because when I talk about my feelings or emotions I didn’t get much response. And he gets more excited when the topic is about sex. One of the date we had he surprised with a gift and I was happy, but when I opened it it was a vibrator. It’s not like it’s a bad gift it’s just makes me feel like he’s ready for some great sex later that day.
yesterday he asked me to go to Hawaii with him, and he invited me to join him and his friends in a brewery. And i started to think maybe im wrong to think it’s all about sex cuz he asked me for a trip and stuff? does that mean anything?