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Oh, I’m not dating them. ahhaha nope nope nope. I may never date again, I’m sure. I’m with them as friends. It feels good to speak with people that share interests with me.
Stefanie
With all due respect to Ivy who generally gives pretty good advice, I recommend not focusing on anyone’s bad qualities. What you focus on you get more of… you want another one like this??? I’m sure not.
All that’s required is to say, no thanks God, what else have you got for me? And then focus only on what you DO want!! Saying an emphatic no to something is the same as saying yes, because it’s the same energy.
You WILL date again, honey. Have you read the articles on the site about break-ups? Sabrina has written some great ones.
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I haven’t but I will read them. Once I get out of this, I really don’t want to go through it again.
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I went dancing tonight and i cant believe how good i feel!
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I have to be honest with myself. I noticed many months ago that things would not go how I wanted them to in this relationship. I couldnt face it. I wouldnt face it. It is what had me to accept the eexplanations that he gave me about things, it is what had me to ignore the signs that he was straying, it is what had me to come up with logic eexplanations for things that went on with other females. I saw signs that he was making a way for other females, signs that he Went to the beach with another females, signs that he was fighting with other females and being dumped. It was a lot that i saw. At 13, my dad paid someone to train me how to find out things – by now i am a seasoned pro. I just wanted it to work and i tried.
With me having a health screening tonight, with all that has went on under my nose, the lies, the deceit, what this has put me through – it is really easy for me to carry hate for him. However, I forgive him. I wish him the best. I cant carry bitterness and resentment. It will only tear me up for years to come.
What are your thoughts on,this?
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Hiv test is negative. Waiting on the rest
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I’m having such a rough time. I’ve been going out and attempting to stay active but I can never stay the entire time that I plan on. I just want this failure to be over
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The HIV test only took about 10 minutes. There isn’t a word to describe how I felt during the wait. Between waiting on the HIV results, him having babies on me, him getting engaged to someone else, the cheating right under my nose – I have had some of the most horrible things happen to me. All of this happened at the hands of someone that I loved, someone that I still love because if I didn’t I would be ok. I have never felt a pain this strong. I really don’t know how I am going to find my peace. My friends tell me to just move on, let it go etc. How do I do this when my heart is shattered into 1,000 pieces. How do I function without it?
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