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Lily
Been on tinder. Matched with this guy, talking for 2 days. I’m not really vibing with him but we did talk non stop for 2 days and had phone sex.
Anyway I didn’t ghost him, I told him I wanna focus on college.
He got mad and sent me messages like wasted his time, I’m not making sense, that everyone is like that..etc
He has my mobile number. He doesn’t know my exact location but knows my postcode.
Not met before.
I’m scared he would find me from my mobile. Or like post my mobile online and my name and photo and be like who’s she and where’s she?? What should I do? Have deleted tinder a together.
Raven
Has he threatened you?
AngieBaby
There’s really nothing you can do except hope he just fades away. If he does do anything, you’ll have to involve the police. Probably he won’t do anything. I trust you’ve learned your lesson about giving a total stranger so much information about yourself and you’ve actually done everyone on this site a service by sharing your story, this is a good reminder of what can happen when you bypass safety measures when on a dating site.
Lily
No he’s not threatened me. But I feel a bit uncomfortable. He kept saying want me to feel comfortable and tell him anything when we’re in the nice and chatty phase. But once I said I don’t think I wanna continue because I wanna focus on college, it’s 180 degree turn.
Errr we’ve never met, talked for 2 days, can’t expect much from me. That’s why I feel weirded out and very uncomfortable. But he’s not threatened me or anything.
I gave out my mobile because he’s asked. But thinking back I shouldn’t have. I’ve blocked him and deleted tinder all together. He only know my part postcode, not full post code but he certainly knows which area Manchester I’m in. He stays 15 miles north of Manchester.
Yes yes, AngieB I have learnt my lesson and will reflect on it. Good you didn’t sugar coat it, l like that. As for the photos, he got them from my tinder profile.
Imagine meeting him f2f in a bar and going on a few dates afterwards… imagine calling it quits after a few in person dates.. man I dodged a bullet. Honestly relieved but not relived at the same time!!!
Maddie
Can you get a free virtual phone number to give out for dates instead of your main mobile? That may help you feel more comfortable with dating in the future. Easier to block and harder to trace back to you. Not sure which options for that exist outside of the US though.
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