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Sensy.
Hana
Hey all! So I posted on here the other week and got some great advice so here I am again!
I met the guy from my original post and had a great first date and we’ve planned another,and we’ve been messaging a fair few times each day since we met. The thing is I’ve noticed that he’s still taking a while to message me back sometimes even though he’s active on another app (insta). He wasn’t shy about showing me his phone while we were out because he was showing me some pictures but I did notice he had a few insta notifications and I can’t shake the thought that he’s talking to other girls on there. He also likes girls pictures quite often which I’m not thrilled about and I have to admit is putting me off meeting him again. Am I being completely ridiculous and would I seem a bit pushy if I asked him why he’s still liking other girls pictures and if he’s talking to other girls? :/
Dangerouse
After one date, you should be carrying on your life, not worrying about how to snag this guy.
Live your own life. Let him worry about what you are up to.
I have to honestly say, if social media is that much in your life and your mind, you are not mature enough to conduct a relationship.
A boy who is on Instagram a lot is also , well, a kid.
You sound like after one date, you plan on locking this guy down like, now.
You can see that it is not common sense to go after a guy after just one date, right?
Don’t you want to let him pursue you and take your time deciding if he’s good enough?
Hes under no obligation to drop Communication with other girls until he decides he wants to win you, then a normal guy would clear his phone of all other connections.
I think you want to ask him about other girls because you want to let him know that he has already won you.
But its way too soon to assume hes even good boyfriend material.
Sensy
Awesome advice from Dangerouse
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