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Michelle
Hey guys, just want your thoughts on this….
I’ve been a member of this gym in Australia for a few years now and only the past 4 months that I’ve started exchanging text messages with one of the instructors there. Due to Covid I havent seen him in the studio, it’s all through Zoom when we do our classes. He seems like a nice guy don’t come across as a player. Our text messages are very lengthy. It’s recently that I feel there is something going on between us. And I’m sure he feels the same. But what I also notice is that his text replies at night times and weekends are really slow in responding back to me. Sometimes he wouldn’t respond till 11pm when I send him a text around 7/8pm on a Saturday. This seems to be like a pattern.
He tells me he is single and lives by himself. Because Australia is still in lockdown he can’t be going out so my only thinking is that he either have a gf or wife and they obviously lives together.
Unfortunately I don’t use Facebook nor Instagram so I can’t stalk him.
Do you guys agree with my thinking?
Thanks
TallspicyIt doesn’t matter. Why are you initiating any discussion with a man not your boyfriend if you like him romantically? It is his job to do that and move it forward and if he is not, why does not matter.
NewbieI feel that you overinvested already if you count the hours after your last texts. He hasnt asked you out, so he should not be more than a blip on your radar. Texting creates a false sense of intimacy for women real fast but for guys not so much so beware of that. When it comes to his text routine: who knows?
I would never date a gym instructor myself, i know it sounds superficial, but im afraid they are superficial 😄
You are the girl that dated a miner a few years ago right? That suddenly started to build a boat. And went poof. Somehow that story and your name got stuck in my head. -
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