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vicky
So I am happily married.
I was out one night at football and I started talking to this man who is friends with my husband. Later he sent me a Facebook mail saying “good chatting”, hours pass, and his wife mails me saying why is my husband mailing you. She started accusing me of getting with her husband and mailed my husband to tell him all of this nonsense. Theres no truth to this or even, evidence. My husband would never doubt me, we have trust.
Weeks after I notice he has removed me from Facebook. That couple, have now broken up and he sends me a Facebook request. Why?
Is he doing this to get to his ex wife or to be friends.
Not sure I should accept in case this is the latter and it causes more drama later down the line. Can guys be spiteful this way?
Tallspicy
Just stay out of it. Do not accept it, if he asks you in person just say… that all became a mess last time for no reason. Let’s just be friends in real life.
kaye
It could be as simple as he is embarrassed and wants to send you a message apologizing for getting you dragged into his drama at home. I am guessing his wife had reasons to doubt him and there are other women so she was reading his messages and saw yours how ever innocent it may have been. If he is your husband’s friend then let him stay your husband’s friend and ignore his request.
Karen
In all the years you’ve been married, has your husband talked about this friend and his wife? Does this sound out of character for her?
Or have you been married very, very recently and so this friend hasn’t come up?
Sensy
Why would you accept a friend request after a drama situation?
Shoshannah
I think it can be very simple – he removed you from Fb because she told him to, even though he wanted to stay in touch. Now that he doesn’t have to obey her anymore, he finally can be in touch with you as he wanted. A friend of mine did exactly the same thing after his divorce – he added on fb all the women that his ex-wife was jealous about during their marriage and told him to remove. I’m not sure if I would accept the invitation though, because it’s true that this is some childish fb drama. Depends on your history and if you’re going to/want to stay in touch. (In case of my friend, I was also a bit surprised that those women were accepting the invitations.)
Sophia
I’d ignore it.
Lisa
If you want to stay happily married, stay far away from this guy.
diba
I think you should tell your husband about this and see how he reacts.
but i think it would be best best to ignore after all he is your husband’s friend and you don’t know him very well.
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