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Christina Ouellette
I recently got a Facebook message from a girl claiming to have once been with my boyfriend along with two screenshots of texts between the two sent recently. He messaged her saying “I want you” when she replied to proceeded to say “I want to bend you over the bed and destroy you” she declined his proposal as she was dealing with personal stuff. He continues to push telling her how it would be if it her to have the stress released. He eventually stoped pushing.
When I confronted him he admitted to sending the texts but said he’s had never gone through with it. That he was in a low place and wanted to feel wanted…?
I’m now terrified that he is cheating on me whenever I
Not with him but o have no way of knowing for certain. He admitted that sex with her was more fun because she allowed him complete control to do whatever he wanted, to be as rough as he wanted. Now I’ve never put limits to this as I enjoy it rough… yet he tells me he can’t be rough with me making the sex less enjoyable?Sandybean
Yes, he has been cheating on you. Does it matter that it may not have been physical this time or not? He clearly had every intention of doing so and she has been on his mind for a while. The only reason he hasn’t physically slept with her is because she said no. This time..
You don’t have to worry about not being “enough”. You ARE absolutely enough! He is an a**hole for suggesting that he can’t do with you what he enjoys doing if he’s never even brought it up. It’s simply a weak excuse for hooking up with other women.
You deserve much much better than a cheating, dishonest, and cowardly man like home and I hope you realize that and let him go to find someone who RESPECTS you.
Tallspicy
Goodbye Charlie. This is a health issue now, emotional and physical. Dump him. This type of cheating with denials and no remorse cannot be fixed. Not without partners counceling.
Lane
This is instant break up scenario! He’s a time waster still sowing his oats, not a man wanting to build a future with you. Toss this one back in the pond, he’s not a keeper!
kaye
If he’s not cheating it’s not for lack of trying!!! This is one of those situations where I feel like this girl is doing you a huge favor by letting you know of his indiscretions. If he was in a low place why didn’t he turn to you instead of telling some other woman he wanted to destroy her p*ssy?!?!?
At least he admitted to the texts but now he’s told you he preferred sex with her, it was more fun, and she liked it rough. Certainly not things to say to your girlfriend!!! If he doesn’t find sex with you enjoyable and says that to your face then yes I think it’s only a matter of time before he cheats if he hasn’t already!!
THANK YOU, NEXT!!
kaye
Oh, and did it make him feel wanted to have this girl turn him down for sex?!!? Why can’t he be content with feeling wanted by you? Regardless you shouldn’t want his sorry @ss anymore!!
Newbie
To me its not clear if you were bf/gf when he sent those texts and had sex. Could all have been in the past. But the guy sounds totally oversexed and for me a sign he is not really the bf type at the moment
Aint even mad at it
The other girl is jealous now that you are with him they could be from the past. Talk to the guy about it.
Khadija
Next!
He tried to turn his disrespectful behavior on you.If you cannot trust him and have to worry about what he is doing when you are not around he’s not a man worth having.
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