Is he looking to just hookup?


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    Kash

    I had gone on a trip with a female friend. We took a hotel to live and the owner of the hotel and I took a liking to each other. There was sexual tension, and we were both blushing. Just he and I stayed up on the terrace talking for hours. Then we smoked up together. And kept talking then we went off to sleep in our rooms separately.Just a hug in the end. After that my friend and I left for home. He requested us to come again. And we left 25 days later he texted me on instagram and we talked. He ended up telling me he felt more than friends. He called me I didn’t pick up as I had slept. Then nothing radio silence for 10 days. He said was busy building a new cafe.and again talked about how he really like spending time with me. Then ended up saying he will come and visit me soon. He told me I was dressed very hot and he thought I was fun to be with etc. But the last time we talked he ended up saying he is wet because he is talking to me. I felt totally weird and stopped responding. He sent me two reels of his I saw then but didn’t respond. He called I didn’t respond. I am ignoring because I didn’t think he should have texted me like that. Is it possible he thought more than hot?

    #936133 Reply
    Raven

    Yeah, that’s creepy.
    He doesn’t know you well enough to text you with sex stuff…

    #936176 Reply
    Kash

    Raven- he asked me 2-3 times why I am not replying so I told him the reason. Now he is saying I didn’t mean it that way I just meant my water bottle fell off and I got wet, sorry I didn’t know you are gonna take it that way.

    #936185 Reply
    Raven

    Block him & be rid of a creeper.

    #936187 Reply
    Liz Lemon

    What do you want from this guy? He clearly just wants to hook up with you. Unless you’re interested in a no strings attached hookup, there’s no reason to engage with this guy.

    #936192 Reply
    Maddie

    I’m assuming you had to travel some distance to the hotel, meaning it would be long-distance. So this guy has nothing to lose trying to turn you into a casual hookup when you’re in town or he’s in your area. It sounds like he has not talked about visiting you to take you on real dates and then stay separately at the end of the night? Because if he’s not saying that and quickly following through in action, actually making the plans, and is instead just doing low effort messaging with long breaks between (not hearing from him for 25 days, 10 days) to tell you you’re hot, he’s not interested in more than the physical.

    #936311 Reply
    Kash

    We texted again. Then he asked me about any dark fantasy I have. Also told me to answer only if comfortable.

    We all can see what he wants. I was really attracted to him but he ruined everything.

    Chapter closed.

    #936312 Reply
    Raven

    Good.

    I am curious, who initiated texting?

    #936315 Reply
    Kash

    He initiated.

    #936331 Reply
    Tammy

    Gud that he confirmed our doubts. Chaper closed indeed. Nxt pls

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