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Kash
I had gone on a trip with a female friend. We took a hotel to live and the owner of the hotel and I took a liking to each other. There was sexual tension, and we were both blushing. Just he and I stayed up on the terrace talking for hours. Then we smoked up together. And kept talking then we went off to sleep in our rooms separately.Just a hug in the end. After that my friend and I left for home. He requested us to come again. And we left 25 days later he texted me on instagram and we talked. He ended up telling me he felt more than friends. He called me I didn’t pick up as I had slept. Then nothing radio silence for 10 days. He said was busy building a new cafe.and again talked about how he really like spending time with me. Then ended up saying he will come and visit me soon. He told me I was dressed very hot and he thought I was fun to be with etc. But the last time we talked he ended up saying he is wet because he is talking to me. I felt totally weird and stopped responding. He sent me two reels of his I saw then but didn’t respond. He called I didn’t respond. I am ignoring because I didn’t think he should have texted me like that. Is it possible he thought more than hot?
RavenYeah, that’s creepy.
He doesn’t know you well enough to text you with sex stuff…KashRaven- he asked me 2-3 times why I am not replying so I told him the reason. Now he is saying I didn’t mean it that way I just meant my water bottle fell off and I got wet, sorry I didn’t know you are gonna take it that way.
RavenBlock him & be rid of a creeper.
Liz LemonWhat do you want from this guy? He clearly just wants to hook up with you. Unless you’re interested in a no strings attached hookup, there’s no reason to engage with this guy.
MaddieI’m assuming you had to travel some distance to the hotel, meaning it would be long-distance. So this guy has nothing to lose trying to turn you into a casual hookup when you’re in town or he’s in your area. It sounds like he has not talked about visiting you to take you on real dates and then stay separately at the end of the night? Because if he’s not saying that and quickly following through in action, actually making the plans, and is instead just doing low effort messaging with long breaks between (not hearing from him for 25 days, 10 days) to tell you you’re hot, he’s not interested in more than the physical.
KashWe texted again. Then he asked me about any dark fantasy I have. Also told me to answer only if comfortable.
We all can see what he wants. I was really attracted to him but he ruined everything.
Chapter closed.
RavenGood.
I am curious, who initiated texting?
KashHe initiated.
TammyGud that he confirmed our doubts. Chaper closed indeed. Nxt pls
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