Is he or is he not into me?

Hunny, get a date with someone else on the weekends. He’s busy…. You’re not. :)

You are wasting your time.hes putting NO effort in. Are you SURE he babysits ???? All sounds fishy to me. And IF he does babysit. ..why can’t you go with him. Dies he even take you OUT on dates or is it just hookups for sex ! Honestly…I’d look for a guy who puts waaaay more effort into me and gives me attention. I say ditch him. And you have NO IDEA what he does Sundays but you are exclusive !???? Can you see how WRONG that is ???

No weekend time= not serious about you. At a certain stage it’s OK to ask questions and you should know what he does on the weekends.

Stacey, see other guys!
He doesn’t sound like much of a catch…

Are you sure he is not married? This “friend” he spends all his time with could be a wife or serious girlfriend. I’ve had that happen.

or he is cheatting with you with another girl

Dude he’s probably cheating on u cos hes too chicken to break it off

After my break up of 8 years I reconnect with a high school friend who back then did not interest me. He is single no kids, I on the other hand have a little boy. We texted n talked for a few weeks before going on a date. We connected so well that we ended up sleeping together that night and went to see him the following week to his place for the second time I called him my ex guy name in his ear this time while being intimate, He never brought it up and I did like nothing happened, kept talking and texting but then we stoped. he didn’t text me and I didn’t either. I decided to try to work things out with my ex for the sake of my son who is four, I felt like I owed my son a family and their was still a lot of sexual attraction with my ex. Things didn’t work out with my ex and I completely broke it off knowing their was to much baggage and I did not trust him anymore after he cheated. one day i get a message from my friend he lives in a L.A and I live a little more then an hour away we start talking and texting and make plans to meet up again, then one morning I get a message from his girl friend telling me they were broken off but are back together so stay away from him I do. A month later we start talking again and he isn’t with her no more they broke up and we text all the time but don’t see him that much cuz of the distance and he recently got a DUI. In the whole time period we have been talking we have been intimately a few times but we talk on a regular bases like every day I know he is very attracted to me and we have fun when we are together so why does he not come see me were I live but he invites me to his place to stay a day or two but I live with my parents and it’s hard to get away and I have my son full time so I always say I can’t but yet he texts with me all day and tells me what his doing and we are friends on social media. I really like him and I want an honest opion if there’s hope. I am very attractive and hardworking girl who is recently single and have men asking me on dates all the time should I just move on an ignore him completely.

Hi, I would like someone’s wise advice:

I am writing with a man abroad since 1 year who wanted email/friendhip from beginning with several people. Through our mailings I developed deeper feelings. He though always stated to only want a friendship, as he had been having bad experiences in relationships before, suffering from panic attacks. A few months ago he had sent me a mail with xoxo. I hadn’t answered this sign at that time as I hadn’t seen this seriously. About a month ago I signed with XX which he also didn’t return to me.
How much hope is there if he is sending tiny flirts in between but mainly writing about his daily life to me. And what is it he really wants from me if he continues this type of communication with me? Will it possibly have to end once?

Cynth

Cynth

So, is a pen friendship nothing that can be developed? Is it just a “nothing”?

Since July this year I’ve been seeing off and on a man who I’ve had a crush on since I was 14 year’s old. He started by messaging me on a dateing site called plenty of fish. He’s also been a friend of mine on facebook for 4 years but he never had communicated with me on facebook in the whole 4 years. I asked him about the fact his facebook status was in a relationship he said he was living with his ex wife. They were trying again but it wasn’t working out and he was vary unhappy. We exchanged numbers and he called me emediatly and we we’re on the phone for almost 3 hours. We talked about everything even that im bi sexual, he said he and his ex wife had talked about a threesome and if I’d be willing to meet her. I agreed. The next day i went over to there house, she mete on there porch. I was able to see right away she was not interested in any woman joining them. When he(Guy) walked out , the moment we looked at each other i felt an attraction like I’d never experienced before. By the look on his face it was mutual. He barely spoke the whole hour and a half I was there, first thing the next morning he messaged me good morning, we ended up talking threw text all day, ending at night with good night. This went on for almost a week when he called and said that he’d told her he wanted to start seeing me and he was vary attracted to me, at first she said fine but the day he was to come over to spend the night with me she kicked him out, needles to say I let him move in with me. He was a bit pushy about having a threesome, so I placed adds on a couple sites trying to find someone, because it didn’t happen in the time he wanted (two weeks ) he went back to his ex. He refused to stop seeing me and tried to get her to agree to an open relationship. She agreed up to our date night six days after he’d gone back to her she’d kicked him out again and he was back with me. This time a little longer with me, almost 3weeks, but once again he went back to her, but we didn’t talk for the first few days but he eventually contacted me and we were back to constantly texting, this time he was coming over a couple times a week for sex and planning a threesome as well. About a month latter he told me that I just had to be patient and he’d be back with me, he said I was the end goal, not her. Latter that night he showed up with all his belongings in the back of his truck. I was happy but leary, i had already developed vary stong feelings for him and was scared of being hurt if he went back to her again, he said as long as I gave him the regular threesomes I’d have him for good, and that he’d burned that bridge with his ex wife, his last to times, just before he’d decide to go back out of the blue id found out they had been talking about 5 to 8 days before he’d go back so this time I insisted on them not talking for a couple months, I was actually hoping it would give us a fair chance to see if he’d feel for me what I felt for him. He agreed. We ended up having to threesomes with to different women, the first he was unable to perform, he said it was because he’d been drinking, over the first couple weeks he’d shown me pictures of he and his ex wife having sex while drunk, so his excuse not being able to perform after drinking was an excuse that by week 4 he was using often. I wanted sex dayly if not more, he’d always complained his ex never wanted to as often as he did, go figure the tables turned, he didn’t want to nearly as often as I did. He barely kept up with the threesomes, that i was not getting much attention during anyway. He’d always check his facebook everyday and his text messages. Wile sitting rite beside me. He also kept all the pictures of her on it and inhis phone. Not to many people were aware of he and I being a couple. He had introduced me to his daughter who’s 21. We hit it off, she and our mutual friend said how much happier he was since we’d been together, and for the first time Guy got along great with his daughters husband. And was now allowed to visit as long as i was there to. His ex wife had a tendency of starting fights with Guys daughter and instigated fights between Guy and his son in law. So they were no longer welcome to visit his daughters home together. At about ten days before this last break up he started being weird with his phone, first never putting it down, then muted it, laying it face down so I wouldn’t see messages coming in, and waiting to read messages until I was out of the room. I confronted him about his behavior and he denied it. By Sunday he was extremely distant, just sat in bed all day while I served him his meals like i always did. Forgot to mention we’d started saying I love you too each other a few weeks before this, he said it first. I knew something was wrong but he wouldn’t talk, just kept saying nothing is wrong, his phone was on mute all day and he didn’t touch it till later Sunday evening while we were bbq dinner. He was obviously making sure I couldn’t see who he was texting next morning he left for work said I love you on his way out, latter that morning he said he was mad at me that I’d grilled his buddy for information or dirt on him, when he got home he said he was going to be friends with his ex wife no matter what I said or felt so I told him her or me and he packed his stuff and went back. There back to normal like nothing ever happened. Like i never happened. My heart is broken, I’ve never fell for anyone like this, i don’t feel like I’ll ever get threw a whole day without crying. Part of me is waiting for him to come back cuz he always does, but I’m hoping he just stays away. I don’t know what to believe, he really had me and his daughter and a couple friends convinced he was happy and in love. How can he fool so many people, do you think he’s fooling all of us or did he get cold feet, his mother said he doesn’t cope to good with change.

Sweetie – send him a text. Hi Sweetie, you’re a fabulous guy but this is just not working for me. Good Luck. x and can it right there and then. You are not a dishcloth.