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Newbie.
Melanie
Guy and I stopped dating a few months ago. I stopped accepting his dates as he was breadcrumbing him.
Ran into him several times this past week. He seemed really interested in me again and says why not text him.
Thought it would be fun to just casually text now and then.
Sent him a text playfully asking if he anyone is home, want to chat? All he said back was “hopefully soon!. WTF? I feel he is humiliating me. Does anyone else read it this way?
Lane
Exactly what did you expect to happen? He is who he is, hasn’t changed, and is going to do it to you all over again. I don’t understand why women feel so compelled to put their hand back in the fire just to get burned again.
Trust me, a man would NEVER get another text from me unless he unequivocally SHOWED me, not with flowery words but many *actions* such as planning copious amount of dates (time to see each other) over a good period of time to prove he erred and wants to make it right. In a nutshell, stop wasting your time on flakes.
Melanie
I’m not interested in dating him, only texting at arm’s length for entertainment once in awhile.
Does his ambiguous reply to me mean he’s not interested in this?
I know a lot of guys won’t be direct about their lack of interest.
Lynn
You really have no better form of entertainment than engaging with this dead end?
Just Passing Through
When will when women realize that men don’t play games? Men have only about 3-10% of the interest that women have when it comes to relationships. Accusing men of playing games is female projection pure and simple. A man’s interest in relationships is like a candle placed in a sometime drafty doorway. Sometimes the candle flickers badly and other times it burns slowly but steadily.
Men don’t play games. Their seeming indifference is genuine when it occurs and when they show a revived interest in a woman that is also genuine. However men will NEVER feel anywhere the intensity and desire for a relationship that women demand of them.
Men enter into relationships the same way they take up a new sport or hobby. Their interest is strong but sooner rather than later they will grow weary of their new activity and abandon it for a time, only to come back to it later refreshed or not at all.
Raven
Seems you were the one playing, but you got played…
Melanie
Heck I really don’t care now. I can find other boys to text. This one was really cute … so I tried. Oh well. Next. Cheers everyone!
LJ
ohhhhh! I see! You’re not hurt or confused.
You’re just shallow.
Melanie
You got it!,Yep! Heh, we cannot all be perfect.
Daisy
If you’re only doing this for entertainment, why are you so bothered if he’s playing games or not? Sounds like you were more interested in restarting something and got burned again.
How does that saying go? “Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice…” you get the gist.
Melanie
I did kinda care at first as he’s so cute. But later turned off those feelings . … yeah I’m human …..
Can get sucked in too.
Looked back at our previous history…yeah he liked playing with me
It was fun. When ya start caring it’s fgame over and look to the lighter side fof it.
Cheers
Newbie
Yes you are human but also Yes you recognized the breadcrumbing. This guy isnt your guy
Newbie
Clear into YOU guys dont breadcrumb, trust me
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