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Maris
So I have gone out with this guy twice, he seemed distant after our last awkward encounter.
What happened was that he made advances that I rejected in a not good way. It kinda caused some tension.
After that we haven’t seen each other again.
I thought he wasn’t interested anymore, only for him to call me and text me that he would love to see me when he returns from his trip.
The next day a mutual friend of ours called me and told me that the guy called him and asked about me, if I was having anything with anyone, and said all sorts of nice and sweet things about me. So basically he was trying to find out from our friend the kind of girl I was and said some nice things about me. My friend also said he got the vibe that he was playing it safe after our last awkward encounter.
So now he has returned from his trip two days ago but hasn’t made any move to ask us to see as he previously mentioned.
So I’m confused as to why he was asking my friend about me, saying all those nice things about me to him and calling me to say he wants us to see but yet not making any move.
I got the vibe that he was interested and wanted to be sure from my friend first that he could go ahead.
But why isn’t he making any move yet?
I like him but I also don’t like the up and down and just wondering what is happening and if I should just delete his number since he won’t make a move.Gaia
Stop over-analyzing this. You’ve only been out once. It was awkward since he wanted more than you were willing to give. He may ask you out again, he may not. Life your life without worrying about what this dude will do.
Go about doing the things you would normally do and if he steps up, great. If not, no real loss as you only had one date.
Gaia
*live your life
sorry for typo
Raven
So he wouldn’t take No for an answer & you really want to see him again?
Seriously…
AngieBaby
So, two dates and he made inappropriate advances on the second, that you had to firmly reject? How old are you two?
If he wanted to apologize, he could have called or messaged to do that… but then he goes to a mutual friend with all this nonsense? Very immature.
That’s a straight up “boi, BYE” in my book. Highly likely he’ll do it again, or do worse. Don’t give him the chance.
Maris
Oh no, I definitely didn’t wanna type out the whole story.
But he did apologise and was actually okay with me turning him down.
And we also seen each other after the two dates just not officially. We’ve been texting and calling a few times after that day.
Him asking my friend was basically to know how he’d go forward with me, according to my friend.
I’m just wondering why he seems interested but not making any major move again.AngieBaby
Got it, I didn’t understand the whole picture.
Then really the only thing you can do is just give it time and space and see what he does. He may be too afraid to ask you on a date again. Not anything you can control. Just leave him alone. Impossible for you and anyone to know what’s going on inside his head.
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