is it bad to make out on the second date?


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    cha

    Hi idk if u guys remember me, but okay i just have a quick question. Is it bad to make out on a second date? actually this is our third meeting but its our official second date lol if that makes sense.
    so okay, he picked me up at work, had dinner then we we went to this rooftop parking lot (no one was there except us) with panoramic view of the city lights. He knows im fascinated with lights and all. Then he started hugging me then kissing me on my forehead and he picked me up cuz i was teasing him and all. he put me down in the car. and kissed me, he lowered the seat and kissed me again and we started making out for gooood minuteees. (im just gonna be little detailed here so u can assess) he grabbed my booty and all, and then he got more into it. but then after like 15min or so, i told him that he needed to go (cuz hes meeting his friends) then he said he doesnt wanna go there. and he started kissing me again, but i stopped it and yah. So idk, we all had fun and all. he dropped me home, gave him a good night kiss. and then weve been texting since. Im just not sure if this is too fast or normal? thank u!

    #576248 Reply
    Danita

    I think it depends on how comfortable do you feel about it. And since you are asking, I guess you are don’t, at least 100%. So maybe it would be better to slow down.

    #576274 Reply
    Mike

    When is this myth going to die that men lose interest if you move too fast? Men lose interest when you’re not attractive for his taste/don’t have the personality and values that he likes

    I’ve known multiple happy couples that had sex 1st or 2nd night they met. It’s completely irrelevant. Men judge you based on how well you get along – not based on the amount of hours until you have sex together.

    #576279 Reply
    Hannah

    Never thought I’d say it but I’m with Mike on this!

    The only reason you need to start off slow is for you and your level of comfort, not for him. If you can handle it, have sex on the first date if you want to.

    #576796 Reply
    cha

    he kinda pull back after this. altho he would still send me good morning and good night texts every single day

    #576800 Reply
    Sherri

    You are starting to put on a very clingy/needy vibe. I would pull back as you are way too invested in this. Did you enjoy the making out? If yes, great!! Stop over analyzing.

    Agree with Hannah “The only reason you need to start off slow is for you and your level of comfort, not for him. If you can handle it, have sex on the first date if you want to.”

    #576802 Reply
    cha

    Okayokay thank you

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