Is it weak to unfriend someone who rejected you?

Oh I unfollowed him right after the post with the girl. I admit I have checked his profile and that’s how I know that there haven’t been any other pics or posts with her.

The problem is he keeps commenting and liking MY posts as if nothing happened. I don’t understand men… Is he just trying to keep his options open since I didn’t respond like a drama girl after that post? Hell, I didn’t respond at all. Just went about living my happy, carefree life, for all he knew.

Thanks guys. Yes, I have unfollowed, the question is should I unfriend. Very different. Part of the reason he passed on me was because we live in different states. I met him when I was in his and we continued online. Only 3 real dates in the 3 months, but talking online almost every day. I guess it’s hard for me to let go because I’m still attached. Just super confused by the comments and likes. I know it means low interest. Why is it so hard to let go?

I don’t know why women are so afraid to speak their mind!

Was he giving you an impression that you were a couple and that he was not seeing anyone else? How did you two agree to be in the long distance?

If the context was that he was not seeing anyone else, then I’d tell him directly straight up that you saw this girls’ post and you want to have nothing to do with him and UNFRIEND him. Delete his number. End of story.

And who cares what common friends you have. If they ask, tell them the truth, without sounding biter. And turn it from your problem to his problem. LOL

Learn how to confront people, and men included, when it is warranted. Hiding and pretending you are a cool happy free girl while crying your eyes out and being sick with jealousy is childish. You did nothing wrong (except for getting involved with a dude long distance of course).

Guys do think like us in many ways. Amd in your shoes, a guy would have been pissed off as well, if he was thinking that that girl was seeing only him. But a guy would not have a problem facing the situation head on and asking you directly what’s this all about. And if they found out you were misleading them and lying to them, they’d have no problem blocking you and deleting you and moving on.

You met three times in three months. He’s not your boyfriend so he can see who he wants and do what he wants. Unfriend him and move on

If someone is liking your pics and commenting on it, it doesn’t mean that they are romantically interested in you. My husband has a sales job and he has over 1500 people on his social media. He likes and comments on women’s posts too. That doesn’t mean he is romantically interested in them. He has few girls that he was dating for short period of time, he still has them on facebook and those women like our pics together now that doesn’t mean that they are still interested in him. Obviously if they are liking our pics together they aren’t. Now it isn’t his fault that someone tagged him in the picture. If he is interested in that woman he is not going to ask her to untag him.

You became too clingy too fast. You don’t owe this guy anything and he isn’t coming back so don’t think too much and do what makes you comfortable!

Thanks for all the replies. Though, I didn’t expect some to be so harsh, but I get it. At no time did I ever think this guy was my boyfriend. And yes, I admitted I did everything wrong right upfront. 3 in person dates may sound like nothing to you, but when you talk to someone every day, sometimes for hours, you get attached. At least women do. This is what I was trying to get a different perspective on. No, of course he doesn’t owe me anything. I never said he did. Just trying to get a handle on my feelings and how men think when they do the things they do. One thing I do know is that if you react all emotional and cuss them out, then all that does is confirm their decision. I DO care because we have mutual friends and I don’t want people to think I’m this crazy chick. So at least I did one thing correctly. I did not react AT ALL. As far as he knows, I’m a super cool chick. In fact, that’s what his comments are. All compliments. That’s why it’s so odd to me. I’ll just chalk it up as he means these things as a friend would and not romantically. It’s just hard sometimes to go back to friends.

Thanks everyone for your insight.

I don’t understand why you cant still be his friend and just be happy for him.

Like my girlfriends and I always say, ‘scrape your shoe and move along.’ Unfriend him. life is too short to deal with sh** like that.

Seeing his “likes” and comments on your photos hurts you and reminds you of your embarassing behavior. EFF that! Just unfriend him and create an online social media world that you want to see — he isn’t part of it so unfriend him.