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Sabrina
My ex and I broke up almost 3 weeks ago. He is the one who ended things, although it was civil. We talked it over and he said it’s for the best, and even though I was extremely upset over it I told him I understood why he’s ending it (he told me he doesn’t really see a future with me). We haven’t been in contact since then, but we still have each other added on social media. Well this past weekend I went out with some friends and majority of our group was guys. I was taking snapchats of the night and I could see that my ex was watching them. I wasn’t all over the guys in the group, but we took a group photo and you could clearly see one of them had their arm around me. Well after that I noticed my ex unfollowed me on instagram and deleted me off snapchat. Could this be because of my snapchats, or was it just a coincidence? I’m asking because I still have a small bit of hope he would want to get back together, and now I feel like I ruined that chance by posting about my night. It sounds juvenile, but I don’t get why he would delete me off everything unless maybe he’s jealous. But he is the one who ended things, so it’s confusing.
C
I doubt he’s jealous. A man doesn’t end things saying he doesn’t see a future if he’s afraid of losing you or you dating other guys. It’s a chance he’s willing to take. Doesn’t mean he wants it all in his face though. Probably why he stopped following you.
Pegggy
Hi Sabrina-I do not know if he is jealous or not. The point is that he does not see a future with you and told you so. Thus, whatever you do or do not post makes not a whit of difference. I don’t mean to be harsh- I just know from experience that if a guy says he does not want to be with you,believe it-unless he suddenly and definitely proves by his obvious actions that he does.
Tom
If you had hope for things, I would be willing to venture that your snapchat fotos didn’t help that. No, not a coincidence IMO. But he was the one that ended it so its all on him. Your actions could have signaled to him that you had moved on (even if that wasn’t the case). But not your problem.
Amy S
Thats normal in a split so dont think it means anything. It just means that there is no need to be watching each others every move. You should have taken him off first as he instigated the split. x
Hannah
A break-up is painful for both people. Perhaps he wants a clean break and not to be seeing what you’re up to? There’s probably an element of him feeling weird/jealous.
It won’t have ruined anything. He knows he let you go and you’re now a free agent. He chose that so he has to deal with the consequences.
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