Is my gut wrong on him

For me this is a feat in itself as I have been single 7 yrs. But broke the cycle in February after a guy I had started texting with for several months didn’t give up even tho I was going thru a ton. He always text good morning and how am I. I would always apologize when I didn’t get back to him and would ask him if he was sure he wanted to talk to me as I was not the best conversation and had a lot on my plate. Finally in January we met and hit it off. We would text constantly but never talk on the phone. I just took him for not a phone guy. He would cook me dinner, passionately kiss me when I got there and just made my head spin as I was not used to someone like him. I even expressed that to him and he would tell me that it’s just the way he is and glad someone appreciates it. He saved shows I would say I enjoyed watching with him and just did a lot of lil things that made me feel special. I would always say thank you and he didn’t have to. I have offered to cook and do things for him but he never lets me and beats me to it. Anyway after a couple months I started noticing things. He would ask me about my day but then when I tell him I would get no response. That his phone since the day we met even now has always been face down and he won’t answer it or look at it when I’m around even when it’s sounding like it’s going to blow up. The begining he was very much about giving sexually as he was about receiving as I am very much a giver too, past couple months it’s been the same position and him receiving. He has been stressed at work but it really feels like it’s more than that. I have never met any of his friends but he has met mine. I always ask him to let me know ahead of time for plans and he waits last minute. I text and now won’t hear anything back for hours and sometimes till the next day. I am starting to feel absolutely stupid and as I type this my gut is screaming I am nothing more than just someone to pass time and a option. Am I wrong?