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Morgan
Would you stay with someone who is facing assault charges?
My boyfriend is not a violent person at all. And I mean it, just protective. Anyway, he was out with his friends one night two years ago, really drunk and got into a big fight. I don’t want to get into details but he might be fined with charge for assault. It will most likely be a hefty fine, and a record.
Just wondering if this would be a reg flag for girls generally, especially high achieving ones, cause I’m one of those people. Kind of want to know everyone’s thoughts. I’m not doubting the relationship, we’re pretty serious but it’s good to know from other ladies’ perspective. Like would you run the other way if a guy told you he this?
Thanks:)
EmilyA red flag is something you observe and gather more information about. This scenario is an example of a good reason to break up.
Anon PersonMy partner forgave me for it… It wasn’t assault btw but still, he was willing to overlook it and he works for a university so… Depends on what kind of person you are. Honestly if it bothers you it bothers you but I feel that if it does bother you he deserves someone less judgemental.
NewbieYou are only asking for my preference right? Although im wondering how high achieving you are and what special kind of man that takes.
I know a fair bunch of guys who went to jail for different reasons including very serious assault charges and none of them would assault a woman, let alone their woman.
And yet i couldnt be with a guy like that. I cant handle violence in people. I cant. My future prospects in being succesfull have nothing to do with thatRavenIt’s definitely something to keep in mind & watch… Has he stopped drinking?
Also, you posted about this earlier, has he come out of his cave?
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