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Do you guys find this normal?
I’m in touch with a divorced man, with two kids.
– texting for 2 months daily
– met in person 3 times (all went great then!)
– never called me
– promised to meet up again soon and mentioned it very frequently during texts
– yet there is still no date set, just the mentions that we’ll do this or that when we see each other again. But when?
Seems like he is unsure. What are your thoughts? I’m leaning toward stopping this.
Why are you letting him waste your time?
i think you have helped him in setting this pattern. if he is making no attempts in personal meetings and is just happy chatting online, this will go nowhere. i would suggest you break this way of communicating. pull back and lessen your chats. see if he notices and asks you whats wrong? if he does you can voice what you really think and take it from there.
END IT IMMEDIATELY. men who want to be boyfriends, act like it. Dear Bob, thanks so much for reaching out. I have had some time to think about it, and I do not think we are looking for the same thing right now. I have really enjoyed our time together, and I wish you the best!
Most likely, he will just say, you are right, best of luck. If he trys to fight for it, BE VERY CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT AND ASK IF HE CAN GIVE IT TO YOU.
He is just keeping you as an option.
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