Ladies! Is it a red flag if he constantly watches porn and masturbates?

Also I was the one who asked before he told me cause we talked about sex and masturbating and then I asked him.

Try to read up on porn addiction. He can overcome it, if he works on it.

If it’s constant and an addiction, it is a problem. Especially if he does it so much that he sleeps with his girlfriends less and uses it to keep some distance from them. But if it’s not interfering with his life, it’s normal enough for guys to do sometimes.

But since you are inexperienced in dating, the bigger problem is if you’re talking about sex but (it sounds like?) you haven’t even met yet. That is usually only okay if you’re looking for a casual hookup. If you’re looking to get to know and date a guy for a potentially serious relationship, talking about sex before ever going on a date is presumptuous and can give the wrong impression. So I’d recommend not bringing up conversation topics like this if you’re talking to a potential date who you barely know yet. It’s a red flag if they keep bringing it up before you meet as well. Again, if you are seeking something casual then it doesn’t matter, but otherwise build a connection in other ways first, see if you even like each other and get along well in person (and if you even want to sleep with him!) before oversharing about sex.