We’re 4 months into our relationship. We have both been very into sex with eachother and also falling in love it seems(see eachother twice a week and typically have sex at this frequency). Suddenly in past 2 weeks, he either doesn’t want to have sex but can’t really admit it to me, so kind of avoids it or we have sex that I have to initiate. He has been stressed at work and does have some ED issues that I’ve known about. I’m going to have a discussion with him but my concern is that once I tell him, he’s going to increase sex just to please me and now I’m just going to feel bad about it or feel like it’s fake desire.I don’t want it if it’s not desired by him. So how do I address my needs without feeling like this?
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