STOW – please stop shaming and generalizing. If you want to do them — why do women, we can do the why do men….
Many PEOPLE are bad at relationships. If you are having bad ones, you need to stop blaming others and look at what you are doing to create that. If you don’t want those things, then don’t go out with women who do (MANY WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO BE MARRIED OR HAVE KIDS). Be honest and clear and kind from the get go, and don’t mess about with any women who is not wanting the same things.
You are not a victim to women and we are not a victim to men.