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Ashley Jones
So I’ve been dating this guy for a month (we’ve been on 5 dates now) but I’ve been noticing that he likes other girls photos of just them on Facebook and doesn’t like any of my photos. What do you think of this? Is he trying to hide me and is it a red flag?
JI’ve had this before. I understand how you feel. More so because he isn’t liking yours.Not that he likes others. It made me feel like I wasn’t enough.
Unfollow him on Facebook if this bothers you, DO NOT mention this to him as he will think you are needy and insecure and may do it more if he ever wants to hurt you. I get it tho, it would bother me too.
My ex used to post selfies of himself on other girls walls on their birthdays and write a nice comment. On my birthday I didn’t get nothing. I didn’t say anything but over time I started to feel like his interest in me wasn’t to the level I wanted. I wanted to feel secure and this behaviour didn’t make me feel that way.
Some people don’t mind this however as it is only Facebook, but I feel you.
JI say its been one month, don’t say anything, watch how things progress. Its still very early days. The likes of other girls shouldn’t matter much, but he should be showing more interest in you. Give him time. If this makes you feel bad in time? I’d have a think if this relationship will make you feel the way you require to feel.
SensyGet to know him a little better and see how it goes. Hopefully you are not intimate yet and on your pedestal ..in case you need to cut the line. Much harder to do if you are and attached.
LaneSocial Media is the devil. Need to accept he’s SINGLE and is allowed to like other ladies pictures. Problem is you don’t know him at all, haven’t even scratched the surface, don’t know where they fall into his life, how long he’s known them, how long they have been friends v. how little he’s known you.
He could be playing it cool, and watching how many “like” your pictures, or doesn’t want to seem overly keen. He may not be keen enough and is still “looking’ which is his right to do, just as its your right to still be meeting and dating others as you should be until a man locks you down. Until your a guy’s official GF, your a free agent, and should act like one. He’s a dime a dozen!
RavenThis is insight into his character…
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