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    Kacey

    So, we had our first date literally the week before England was locked down (I know that’s bad but we were all a little ignorant then) and we’ve texted each other essentially every day since then which is probably about a month ago now.

    But over the last week and a bit his replying has slowed dramatically, to the point it can be about 5 hours between replies. We’ve already said we definitely want to see each other once restrictions are lifted, but I can’t help but feel he’s losing interest, which I guess could be natural in the circumstance.

    Obviously I want to keep some form of conversation going and I need someone to slap me round the face and say that it is a long time till we see each other again and 5 hours is fine. Some days we have quite quick back and forths. I did ask about FaceTime but I know he hates seeing his face… I could suggest a phone call?

    So tell me it’s cabin fever and I need some fresh air, or I should lay off messaging see if he picks up on it.

    Actually just tell me what to do because I clearly have no idea how to handle this…

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    Anon

    I can tell you it will be hard to keep up the communication- so I’d not worry about it. Let him initiate and he will if he has something interesting to say. Guys don’t text to keep up communication with someone they’ve barely known. Don’t text him/ take his lead and mirror his behavior. If he texts- you text, if he calls- you talk. That’s what you do.

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