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I’ve been “seeing” this guy since last March. At first it was fun, then I caught feelings. He’s also my brothers friend. We hang out with the same group of people so we would see each other and a handful of times we made plans with one another; as a date. Each time we were together, I feel, went great. The last time I saw him was before the shelter in place occurred. He took me home after spending the night at his place. We said goodbye and hugged. I have barely heard from him. After “seeing” each other for a year, without any real commitment, I wonder, did it ever really mean anything? All of the “positive” signs that he really liked me, it all comes down to him going silent in a time where people are reaching out to one another to check in. I think I have my answer. But it doesn’t hurt any less than when I was kept wondering “what if”.
If you wanted a relationship with him it was probably not the best thing to be “seeing” him for a year. He probably assumes you are fine with it being casual/fwb. I think most guys nail down a woman within months – are you even exclusive sexually?
He hasn’t reached out and I would take that as a sign that he isn’t very bothered by you.
You have a choice- reach out and continue with this vague hook up relationship, reach out with a view to reconnecting and at the right time say you would like more or accept his lack of interest and move on from him. When he bothers to get in touch for a hook up say no because you want a boyfriend etc.
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