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Elle.
Maria
A guy asked me to hang out at his place on a Saturday evening to have takeout, watch a movie and chill. I’m going to respond with the text below. Anyone have any advice? Should I rephrase to make it more playful?
I’m enjoying getting to know you and would love to see you again, but it’s a bit too soon for me to come over to your place.
Can we do something else?
Penny
Sounds good to me. If he backs out, you know what he was after.
Gaia
I think your response is excellent. It sets YOUR boundaries in a healthy manner. Good job!
Tallspicy
Hi bob! Thanks so much for inviting me over, I am so excited to see you again ;-)! While I love the idea of a chilled out night, it is still a smidge early for me to hang out at your place. Would you mind doing something else? We always have so much fun together! Xo
Amber
I think that sounds fine.
When my now partner of nearly 3 years asked me to his house for dinner-I think also by our 3rd date-I said that I am looking forward to that prospect in the future, but while he was still dating others I would like to wait before we venture into home dates.
He made our relationship exclusive pretty much straight after that. It’s good to set your boundaries in a nice subtle way. 😉
Elle
You legit don’t even need to go into why. A simple “Def wanna see you again, but can we do something else?” is more than sufficient. I’m not all about the long texts in the beginning. also don’t double-text or initiate – make him wonder if he’d never hear from you unless he reached out. remember – be the “ungettable girl” (mindset, not games). you’re already SO on the right track by having your OWN idea of what you want vs just doing whatever he wants. gl!
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